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Re: C: Anal Worship
Date: 15 Feb 2009 03:43:04 -0000
From: archroy

Joe Dee wrote:

>My question has to do with anal worship

All I can say is I love it. And, when you find a woman who
enjoys it as well, man are you in for a treat.

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Re: P: FemDom seeking male
Date: 6 Feb 2009 03:21:17 -0000
From: nuked_potatoes

Hi Ms Saber :-)

I love Your website any lil thing i can do?

nuked potatoes

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Re: P: FemDom seeking male
Date: 15 Feb 2009 03:12:48 -0000
From: archroy

Saber wrote:

>feel free to email me privately or via list.

Hi,

I'm a sub 48 swm looking for a top. I've been a top most of my
life but would love kick back and have the woman take charge in
the bedroom. And I love to please.

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S: Anniversary Surprise - Chapter Eight
From: Shoekisser
Date: Thu, 15 Jan 2009 22:48:56 +0000

First chapter is at:-
http://u4ds.com/2008/11/anniversary_surprise.shtml

Anniversary Surprise

Chapter Eight

The next morning I awoke with a bulge in my panties. I really
wanted to touch it, but there was no way I could. I tried
rolling onto my stomach and rubbing against the mattress, but
that was unsatisfactory.

"What are you doing?", scared me.

I quickly rolled onto my back, and replied, "Just trying to get
comfortable."

The expression on her face told me she knew that was a lie, but
she didn't pursue it, just looked at the bulge in my panties,
and said, "My, you are horny. We'll have to do something about
that."

She didn't explain, but I suspected the "something" wouldn't be
what I had in mind.

"On your feet and into the shower. We have a busy day," as she
unbuckled the arm binder.

We showered together for the first time since we left home.
There was much touching and rubbing on her part, but I was told
"Hands off".

After we had gotten out and dried I was even hornier.

She had me dress in black bra and panties followed by the
original white blouse and short black skirt. Then three inch
heels went on my bare feet.

"We're off to the academy beauty parlor."

There I was stripped of the skirt, blouse, and heels. I got a
manicure and pedicure, and all nails received pink polish. Then
waxing of arms, legs, chest, and back. She decided I should be
allowed to grow some hair in my crotch, so I got a bikini wax.
My hair was done with an added hair piece to cover my bald area.
A very extensive make-up job followed. Then I was allowed to see
myself in a mirror. I was amazed. I made a presentable woman. I
was almost pretty.

Then back to the room where, she produced a new white lace bra,
matching panties and garter belt. Then came white hose, and new
white patent pumps with four inch heels and instep straps.
Finally she pulled out a beautiful white lace dress, and had me
put it on. A veil was attached to my hair, and hung over my
face.

"You are going to make a beautiful bride."

She disappeared into the bathroom and finally came out dressed
in a tux that was masculine except for the white lace blouse,
and black patent heels that matched mine except for the color.
We were wearing his and hers pumps.

"Let's go."

We rode the elevator to the first floor, where we were met by
the Head Trainer.

"Amazing. Our ugly duckling has blossomed. Come with me."

I left my wife and I followed the woman into another room, where
she instructed me in the proper way to slowly walk down the
aisle, and numerous other things related to the wedding
ceremony, including how to get kissed.

"Your wife will kiss you at the end of the ceremony. You must
stand with your hands at your side, and not touch her. The same
rule applies to other women who want to kiss the bride."

Finally she announced that it was time. We walked into the
dining room. The large table had been moved to one side and the
chairs arranged so they were facing the Head Mistress who stood
at the other end in front of a small table. I did the slow walk
the length of the room, accompanied by a recording of "Here
Comes The Bride", until I was just in front of the Head
Mistress, and next to my wife.

The ceremony was just like a normal one except my vows
were,"Love, honor, and obey." and hers were "Love, honor, and
annoy."

My wife produced a beautiful engagement ring which she put on my
finger with, "With this ring I thee wed. It is a symbol of your
status as my bride, and is to be worn at all times."

The Head Mistress pronounced us "Bride and wife" and announced
"You may now kiss the bride."

My wife lifted my veil, bent me backwards, almost causing me to
lose my balance, and planted a kiss on me. Her tongue entered my
mouth, but as instructed, I didn't reciprocate.

"You may now kiss your wife." pointing at her feet. I knelt and
reverently kissed my wife's beautiful black patents.

Then came the receiving line with all the women congratulating
my wife, and attacking me. They all kissed me, some with a hand
in my crotch, others caressing my boobs. One reached under my
skirt with both hands, grabbing my pantied ass, and ground her
crotch against mine. Following instructions, I stood
submissively and let them do it.

The H.M. announced, "There is one more part to the ceremony."

She led me to the small table, and instructed me to raise my
skirt. When I did, she proceeded to remove my lacy white wedding
panties.

"Please don't take my panties." which brought laughter from the
assembled women.

"Listen to that. Isn't that sweet? He's begging to keep his
panties. Don't worry. You'll get them back"

She then instructed me to stand next to the table and spread my
legs. They were soon strapped to the table legs. A white arm
binder appeared and my arms strapped into it.

At this point my wife, who had disappeared, returned. The tux
and blouse were gone, and she was wearing a black leather
corset, black hose, and the black patent heels. While I stood
helplessly she installed a black dildo on the front of her
corset. I was then bent over the end of the table, strapped
down, and my skirt lifted up over my back..

"Since we just got married, I'm going to pop your cherry. Would
you like that?"

She didn't wait for my answer, but proceeded to impale me. She
was gentle at first, gradually sliding the thing inside me. I
can't really say it was painful. I just had a feeling of being
filled. Once she was inside, she got more enthusiastic, and
really started pounding away, which brought cheers from the
women watching, and comments:

"Atta Girl."

"Ride him, cowgirl."

Eventually, she got tired and pulled out. She released me and
put my panties back on.

"That was fun. Let's continue upstairs in our room."

That brought more cheers and cat calls.

Upstairs, she had me remove my dress and hang it up. She removed
my veil and bra. She then reinstalled the arm binder and had me
lie on my back on the bed. She attached the arm binder to the
head of the bed.

"Tonight you get to sleep in my bed."

She stripped to just hose and heels and attacked my body. She
bit my nipples and caressed me until I was hard, which didn't
take long. She pulled my erection out of the top of my panties,
leaving my balls encased in nylon, and impaled herself on me.

It had been a long frustrating two weeks. In fact it had been
longer than that since I'd had any relief. We hadn't had sex for
at least a week before we started this trip. Thus I exploded
quickly. It was the most mind blowing orgasm I ever had.
However, once wasn't enough for her. After a brief rest, she
attacked me again. This continued until I was exhausted, and
fell asleep.

After a brief nap, I awoke to her removing the arm binder, and
her handing me a beautiful white lace night gown to put on. She
donned a similar black one, and we went at it again. This time I
wasn't restrained, but, as instructed, I lay on my back and let
her do all the work.

After another orgasm, she let me fall asleep. This was the first
time in two weeks I got to sleep in a bed, and unrestrained. I
took advantage of it and slept like a baby.

Late the next morning, she awoke me, and we showered together.
The she had me dress in a new all pink outfit, bra, panties,
garter belt, hose, heels, frilly top, and skirt. I packed all
our clothes, and carried the cases downstairs.

All the women, staff members and guests, were lined up to say
goodbye. They hugged my wife, while I had the privilege of
kissing them goodbye.

Actually, I had to kneel and kiss each of their shoes. While my
lips were in contact with each pair of sexy shoes, I felt the
pleasant tingling sensation in my groin. This continued until I
reached the last one, the Head Mistress. When I kissed her
shoes, I got a jolt.

"I couldn't resist. I didn't want you to get too complacent, and
forget why you were here." she said laughing.

She then hung something on a thin chain around my neck, and put
earrings in my pierced ears. She handed me a mirror so I could
see myself. The chain around my neck held a pink medallion in
the form of a stylized MT, that was the symbol of ManTran. The
earrings matched the medallion.

"These will help you remember your visit here If you're lucky,
maybe your wife will allow you to return sometime for a
refresher course."

I shuddered at the thought, which made her laugh.

I loaded the bags in the van, and we were driven to the airport
by the same feminized husband who had picked us up.

On the way, my wife said, "If you think you can behave yourself,
I will remove the ball ring when we get to the airport. That
would simplify going through security. Would you like that?"

Remembering the hassle the last time I encountered airport
security, I readily agreed, "Yes, Mistress."

After checking the bags, she led me into a women's restroom. She
had me stand in front of the mirrored wall by the sinks, and
raise my skirt. She pulled my panties down, produced a key, and
unlocked the ball ring. For the first time in many days, I was
free of that diabolical device. However, there was no rebellion
left in me.

While I was standing there, with my skirt up and my panties
around my ankles, a woman walked in. Her mouth dropped open and
she stared at the sight of an apparent woman, well over six feet
tall in heels, clad completely in pink, with crotch exposed, and
another woman with her hands between her legs. She couldn't be
sure, but there seemed to be an unnecessary appendage between
the legs.

My wife finished unlocking and removing the ring, and said to
the woman, "Just adjusting things."

Then to me, "Hurry dear. Pull up your panties and lets go."

She walked to the door and as she passed the woman handed her a
ManTran card and said, "Training husbands is a never-ending job,
but it's much easier when you keep them in dresses. Don't you
agree?"

I hurriedly pulled my panties up to avoid further exposure,
tugged my skirt down, and followed her out the door. I had to
pass close to the woman who still stood with her mouth open,
speechless.

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Re: S: Anniversary Surprise / Re: S: Serendipity
From: Peter Green
Date: Sat, 7 Feb 2009 00:01:34 +0000

Two great stories, Thank you to both the authors.

http://u4ds.com/2008/11/anniversary_surprise.shtml

http://u4ds.com/2009/01/serendipity.shtml

As always DOMestic is a great read.

luv peter or rita depending on which servants role i am given.

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Re: S: The Beginning Part 2
Date: 15 Feb 2009 02:50:08 -0000
From: archroy

Michele Grounded_Shield wrote:

>Anal Angel

Wow, I would love to have a woman like you to take charge and
allow me to enjoy the submission.

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U: SINSations in Leather 2009 - March 6-8 Chicago
From: "Pat"
Date: Tue, 10 Feb 2009 23:40:02 -0600

SINSations in Leather 2009,
March 6-8 Chicago a Pansexual BDSM Event
Registration Closes February 25, 2009 at Midnight

We're Turning up the Heat

The Event will feature:

A Kick-Off Party on Friday Night with FetLife Creator John Baku

Opening Ceremonies - Keynote Address by Jay Wiseman

32 Educational Workshops and Demonstrations by the Nation's top
Presenters.

Friday and Saturday night Play Parties in our fully equipped
Play Space.

The Vendor Marketplace offering every kind of fetish gear,
clothing, furniture and toy imaginable.

Free Health Screening and Safer Sex Supplies Provided by Test
Positive Aware Network http://tpan.com/

Social Area with Meet & Mingle Lounge.

Silent Auction to benefit NCSF, LA&M & Tpan

Pre-Play Party Entertainment on Saturday Night
and many other surprises.

Register at:-
http://sinsationsinleather.com/

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admin: email addresses
From: "Christine at u4ds.com"
Date: Sat, 14 Feb 2009 18:18:47 -0000

Hello,

Email addresses are deliberately not clickable links on the
DOMestic blog in order to reduce the likelihood of people
receiving spam when posting their email here. See below for how
to copy and paste.

If however you wish someone to reply to your email address, then
you can't reply using the blog form. You need to supply your
email address in the method described here.-

http://u4ds.com/how_to_get_in_direct_contact.shtml

If you wish to reply to a person direct, then you will need to
copy and paste the email address manually. For those who don't
know how to highlight content to copy and paste, it is probably
best that you learn how to use your computer before attempting
to reply. It's basic stuff but here's how it works on many
systems:-

To copy text:

Highlight the content you want to copy with the mouse or other
pointing device. Press Ctrl-C (Windows and Linux) or Command-C
(Mac).

To paste text:

Position the text cursor where you want to paste.
Press Ctrl-V (Windows and Linux) or Command-V (Mac).

This message is in response to the vast amount of folk who are
still replying via the blog for direct contact despite the blog
form clearly saying NOT to do that.

sincerely,
Christine at u4ds.com

Renew or get your DOMestic password.

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Guidelines for DOMestic discussion and Personal Ads
From: "Christine and David - DOMestic moderators"
Date: Sat, 14 Feb 2009 22:38:15 -0000

Guidelines for Posting and Personal Ads on DOMestic

Write in English (the moderators have to understand to post)

Take time to apply at least some basic grammar. Try to write in
complete sentences and run the spell checker please.

Don't post one line messages. If you can say it one line, then
it's almost certainly not worth saying, and it's not going to be
of interest to anyone reading.

Break up your paragraphs so that there is at least one break on
each screen. Preferably not more than a dozen lines between
breaks. Nothing makes reading harder than wall-to-wall text. The
more breaks the better.

Use a blank line between paragraphs rather than indenting.

Keep the content appropriate to list guidelines at...

http://u4ds.com/posting_guidelines_and_welcome.shtml

Briefly that is DOMestic dom sub issues that are of interest to
couples in relationships, or folk who would like to be in such
relationships.

Always post a subject line header of half a dozen words or so at
the start of your message. So that the moderators know what kind
of message it is that we are editing you can categorise like
this......

C: for correspondence and discussion

F: for short fantasies

P: for personal ads (include your location)

S: for stories

U: for advertisements and posting URL's

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The rest of this message is mostly about personal ads and
writing and replying to them.

Personal Ads.

Be sincere and honest. If replying to an ad then at least have
the courtesy to put as much effort into writing your reply as it
looks like the advertiser put into their message.

Say where you are in the world. DOMestic is world-wide.

When presenting your own profile write as you might talk. Open
up and show your personality, tell your story. If you make
jokes, it probably helps if you are self-deprecating or at least
tasteful. Try and express things that make you different. Be
positive and confident in your language and tone without
arrogance.

If you enjoyed writing your profile, the reader will be more
likely to enjoy reading it.

Some folks have found partners through the personal ads on
DOMestic, and from time to time we get letters on and off list
from folks who say they have found their soul mate. So a
DOMestic ad or profile is certainly worth a try.

But you should also start looking a lot closer to home. Maybe
sign up for evening classes, take dancing lessons, join a
gardening club, take up yachting, dog training, or any one of a
thousand ways of meeting people.

And yes, just one of those ways, would of course be to find
social groups on the net or elsewhere that focus on bdsm.

Your hopes for meeting someone would be more realistically
placed on the former rather than the latter. Shutting oneself
away with a computer in cyberworld might be the wrong policy.
Get out and about.

Try and communicate what you want from life as a whole. Ask
yourself a few questions like those that follow here and try and
answer them in presenting yourself.

Do you want to build a relationship that has a broader
foundation? Would you like to meet someone with whom you share
many mutual interests, and with whom you can be also be open
about your sexual fantasies? Or is there only one interest in
your life?

What other interests do you have? Are they more or less
important than being submissive or dominant?

How submissive/dominant are you really? Have you had any
experience at all? Is it possible that some way down the road
you would find that sexual domination/submission is just one
element of your personality? Do you want to find a person who is
primarily focused on bdsm?

If you want to find a someone who is actively seeking a partner
via the net - Would you be likely to find him/her in a bdsm
forum - or is there a forum dealing with some other interest
that you might share with your potential partner? Should you
join other groups that focus on these interests too?

Is it possible that you both love cooking, golf, foreign travel,
model trains, knitting, dressmaking, racing bikes, or plane
spotting?

Would you be better served by also seeking your lifetime partner
where these activities are discussed on the net and off-line?
There you might find a person who shares your desires, hopes and
aspirations, and after establishing there was mutual ground, you
could open up fairly early on that you are a liberated person
who also has sexual fantasies you want to share.

If he/she is an open person who you could share these things
with, you'll then know it sooner. And if it's a non-starter you
can more easily move on and try again.

Your future lifetime partner is likely to be involved in the
things that interest him/her, and sexuality is going to be just
one part of both your characters. So perhaps he/she will only be
peripherally participating in forums like DOMestic. So think
about widening your field.

How much you say on any web site or online group about you and
your sexuality will depend on how much you will be risking,
career wise, by "coming out".

It pays to advertise carefully.

Other messages you could read:-

email address info

Finding Fem-Dom Friends

How to get in direct contact

Directions - search for a submissive

Admin - posting

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All posts to the list are edited by Christine and David.

All material posted on DOMestic and FEMdom_sex is protected by
Copyright Laws. See... http://u4ds.com/cright

Briefly copyright belongs the author, but compilation copyright
belongs to DOMestic.

The DOMestic discussion list. Now in our thirteenth year. The
password site now has over 6,700 files with well over 400
stories, plus pictures, and hundreds of articles. $26.99 for a
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