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C: How to escape Mother-in-law?
Date: 2 Apr 2009 10:58:11 -0000
From: Daniel Gold

Recently, my girl friend dressed me like a girl and invited her
younger sister into the room without my notice and her sister
burst into laughter to see me dressed in my GF's skirt and bra.
Both teased me a lot and my sister-in-law expressed her desire
to show my dress to her mother too. When i objected she gave me
an option to wear a long hair wig in return to keep the incident
a secret or else she would show my pics (she took my pics when
she entered the room) to her mother. I had no choice but to
accept her option.

When i wore the long hair wig, she invited her mother into the
room and all three females had a good laugh at me. I tried to
run but i falter so many times in high heels. Eventually mother-
in-law held and supported me with her hands while i was
speechless as to how to react and face her. I was so ashamed to
stand in front of her.

Now, mother-in-law has asked me to dress like a girl for her
every week or else she will show my pics to my family and
friends too.

What should i do? Are all mother-in-laws like her?

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Re: C: topping from the bottom - what is it?
Date: 2 Apr 2009 23:09:08 -0000
From: Ms. Irish - Darlyn Boyle

topping from the bottom?

Well that means when the sub tries to control from the bottom.
i.e. he/she thinks he/she should be in control.

oh please ...

do hope this helps?

with much sadistic affection.

Ms. Irish

whose boy often tries this, then I either IGNORE HIM (which is
worse than anything I can do) or make him kneel on rice in the
bathroom.

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Re: P: dominant wife seeking couples with similar interests
Date: Wed, 1 Apr 2009 19:50:40 -0700 (PDT)
From: surfer slave

I hope I am doing this right for direct contact.

Mark wrote:

>My mistress and I live in northern California. I'm hoping that
>we might be able to be friends with another couple

My Mistress and I also live in NorCal and would like to
socialize. Contact me at surferslave@yahoo.com

We'll put our Mistresses in touch, since I am sure you'll agree,
they should be organizing any get-togethers.

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Re: C: dominant woman - only in a drunken stupor
From: Madamplz
Date: Thu, 2 Apr 2009 00:31:31 EDT

Mark wrote:

>"The one thing Darryl did get right is the fact that a
>"Matriarchal society" is sheer fantasy."

No, I think he got that wrong too.

Mark wrote:

>"Neither gender is inherently "superior" to the other."

I would agree with you on that one, however, it is a separate
issue from a matriarchy being sheer fantasy.

Further Mark wrote:

>"Everything else he posted was utter ignorant nonsense."

I would agree with you if you remove the word "else".

Mark then wrote:

>"The signs were there, just not as out in the open."

Are you new here? While many have eventually ignored him, Darryl
has been very up front and out in the open with his needs for
two dimensional women who are unable to object to his
manipulations. Whenever he posts, I get an image of an oft naked
man typing away fervently with a somewhat stained, yet well
used, portrait of Wonder Woman sitting next to his monitor.

I could be wrong. It could just as well be Catwoman.

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Re: C: dominant woman - only in a drunken stupor
From: "nuked_potatoes" - Darryl
Date: Thu, 2 Apr 2009 07:54:34 -0600

Hello Ms Christine,

I do promise a proper response to all. I have only quickly
skimmed thru DOMestic posts. As i mentioned in my last post I am
truly working 14 hours plus a day right now in the field. Namely
northern Alberta's oilsands.

My last post was only to acknowledge those who responded. I will
be back to elaborate on my views. I do have a quick comment on
one post. Perhaps i read it too quickly. It seemed to suggest
that womanhood and child-bearing were not the most divine gift
of Women, that it was somehow lesser. A very strange perception
to me, as i see it as the holy grail. I digress i am off to
sleep after day 18.

Barring the multitude of actual life things that i must arrange
when i get a day off. Like renewing my car registration, a trip
to the dentist, yadda yadda yadda, I will be grateful to re-
enter this discussion.

Until then, and as ever loyal,

nuked potatoes

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Re: C: dominant woman - only in a drunken stupor
From: Saber - Miss Stress
Date: Thu, 2 Apr 2009 12:48:49 -0500

shy won wrote:

>Erotic is tickling your partner with a feather..... Kinky is
>using the whole chicken...

LOL. That was cute shy won. I like the way you spelled shy won
too.

nuked potatoes wrote:

>I am only briefly able to read DOMestic as I recently started
>a new project, and my days are filled with work and sleep.

Understandable, Real Life should take precedence over Virtual
Life. I look forward to your reply.

>i can answer one question with another however. What is Kink?
>to that I'd ask what is normal?

That's easy. Merriam-Webster dictionary defines normal here:
normal

Now, Since this conversation is dealing with what is fair and
not fair to women, as well as what is or isn't kink. Normal in
this instance would follow through with definition:-

2 a: according with, constituting, or not deviating from a norm,
rule, or principle b: conforming to a type, standard, or regular
pattern

Now I also looked up kink with the following result:
Kink

Definitions in relation to this conversation are:-

2 a: a mental or physical peculiarity : eccentricity , quirk b:
whim

6: unconventional sexual taste or behavior

And Kinky returned the following:

Kinky

2. relating to, having, or appealing to unconventional tastes
especially in sex ; also : sexually deviant

Now, I am female. I am dominant. I personally like anal sex
where I am the recipient from time to time. So therefore,
according to my 'vanilla' friends I am 'kinky' or 'into kink'.
According to a few other FemDoms I know, I do not fall into the
'norm' with that behavior even in the BDSM world, so I am an
abnormality in that respect as well.

So, *IF* I enjoy this activity, and it is *normal* for me to
engage in it, even though others view it as 'kinky', how would
it be unfair to me as a female? Answer that.

Saber
AKA Miss Stress

"Vocabulary enables us to interpret and to express. If you have
a limited vocabulary, you will also have a limited vision and a
limited future."-Jim Rohn

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Re: C: dominant woman - only in a drunken stupor
Date: Thu, 02 Apr 2009 21:22:51 -0000
From: "MaitresseX"

Dear Ms. Christine,

It is good to see more activity on this list but I personally
find the thread from "nuked potatoes" tiring. He should be
happy to be on such a wonderful list and be more respectful
since this is a Fem Dom group. Maybe nuked should explore a
different sexual arena. I am certainly not in the mood to
correct him or pay attention to him.

Regards,
MaitresseX

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S: In The Bank Manager's Cupboard. Part Twenty-one
From: "Christine" at u4ds.com
Date: Thu, 02 Apr 2009 16:55:08 +0000

Previous issues are at:-
http://u4ds.com/stories/meeting_and_seduction/

In The Bank Manager's Cupboard - by Ms. Christine
Copyright 1986-2009 Christine and David Stevenson

Part Twenty-one

Karin was not long returning to the bedroom, she
promptly unlocked his room and breezed in cheerfully,
waving her keys as if to promise unlocking him. She
pushed David back onto his bed. She stepped out of her
panties and climbed astride his face saying, "I'm very
sticky, clean up the mess." With both hands she held
her vaginal lips open, and tensing her muscles she
positioned herself just above his mouth. She ordered,
"Tongue."

He licked out her vagina, nearly gagging as he was
forced to swallow male semen from her recent encounter.
Karin taunted David, "If you were a real man, you would
be allowed to do it, not just clean up after." She
reached down and grabbed both his ears, then wiped
herself back and forth over his tongue. Commenting, "As
a flannel excellent, as a man useless."

She climbed off and ordered David to turn over. Picking
up her keys from where they had fallen to the floor she
unlocked him and unstrapped him completely. She rolled
him onto his back again and once again sat astride his
face, this time facing his feet. "This is known as
Queening," she said as she let her weight fall upon his
face, her anus on his mouth. "I think you can
understand why!"

David, feeling totally subjugated, could understand
that!

Karin ordered. "Worship me, that's a good little
flannel, and I'll give you your reward."

David, now familiar with how to worship Karin, pushed
his tongue deeply where it had been before, just as he
had in the afternoon. As he did so he felt her touching
his penis lightly. Her fingers playing with him like a
pianist tripping lightly over a piano keyboard. This in
itself a frustrating kind of pleasure, and he thrust
his hips up to meet her hands. Trying to gain
fulfilment.

Karin relaxed back onto his face, and let David do all
the work. He could barely reach her fingers, yet he
constantly thrust upwards gaining so little for so much
effort. Karin almost laughed at the idea, he was being
made to tease himself.

He was brought to the verge of orgasm, and then she
slapped his prick back and forth, painfully stemming
his eruption. She repeated the process again and again
and David thrust his tongue desperately into her,
hoping that it would earn him the ultimate reward. His
penis became red and sore, just as his buttocks had
been that afternoon.

Denying him any release, she climbed off and
instructed, "Cold water, and then bed. Behave
yourself."

David couldn't see her amusement as she locked the door
on him. His light went out seconds later. David lay
there in sexual torment, his organ pumping, he
desperately wanted to touch it. But dare he? Eventually
he took the risk of wanking, thinking that Karin must
have gone to sleep. He was instantly on the verge of
orgasm, but the light came back on. Realising that
Karin was almost certainly now watching him he went
over to the bidet and splashed himself with water,
until his erection eventually subsided.

As he returned to the bed, the speaker announced,
"That's a good boy, now don't ruin it, behave
yourself." The light went out again and David lay down
and tried to sleep. He tossed and turned restlessly.
Then he felt something silky against his face and he
realised that Karin had left her panties in his bed.

David held the silky garment up to his face. He
inhaled, and by the scent alone his nose located the
gusset. There he found the smell of her sex, and he
sniffed, like an animal in heat. The scent of her was
more than he could take, and he took hold of his
throbbing erection, and started wanking furiously.

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Re: UK porn censorship and hypocrisy
Date: 4 Apr 2009 17:25:50 -0000
From: David at u4ds.com

Hello,

Christine wrote:

>If we lived in an ideal world, I'd be the first to defend the
>UK Home Secretary against the eagerness of the gutter press to
>do an expose on her husband watching adult movies

I see that satirical writer Clive James sort of agrees with you,
he writes that Porn is:-

"To keep one's mind off sex while one's partner is absent."

And he says that:-

"Very few voices have dared to speak up in defence of the Home
Secretary's husband, but let mine be one of them."

Full (tongue in cheek) article is at:-

http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/magazine/7982132.stm

sincerely,
David at u4ds.com

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