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C: feminization training tip
Date: 21 May 2009 03:32:19 -0000
From: BBW Mistress Lina

One thing that might useful in feminization training (learning
to walk like a woman) is to have him hold a tennis ball between
his legs up against his balls. He will have to keep his knees
together as he has to learn how to walk, sit down, bend, stand
up all over again if he doesn't want to drop the ball and face
the consequences.

To make the task more difficult replace the fuzzy tennis ball
with a well-lubricated racquetball.

BBW Mistress Lina

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Re: C: feminization training tip
Date: 26 May 2009 17:17:44 -0000
From: sissy gabriella

Thank You so much for this wonderful training advice Mistress
Lina. I will immediately start practising.

I kneel for You Mistress Lina

sissy gabriella

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C: In praise of Dominant Women - totally their inferior in UK
From: fem fan
Date: Thu, 21 May 2009 15:34:34 +0000

Hello all,

this is my first post, but having just read the exchange between
Ms Christine and nuked I felt I had to write as it is just too
funny - nuked after all just had his proof handed to him on a
plate by what can only be described as a superior woman - pretty
much concluding the discussion on whether dominant women exist -
give it up Nuked - it's just been proved to you on more levels
than I care to mention.

I also felt I had to write, as it doesn't seem right that I only
take from this resource, and when Ms Christine mentioned that no
one else was writing in, I felt it was my duty as a sub male to
answer the call of a superior woman and throw my hat into the
ring and see what happens.

As for myself, I have been reading DOMestic for some time now
but have never previously posted - I love the stories (the
latest instalments of The Bank Manager's Cupboard have been mind
blowing - Ms Christine, you're an amazing author!) and often
find myself interested by the discussions taking place.

In all honesty though, I tend to find myself concentrating on
the female responses, as I get a sense of excitement just
reading words that are written by a dominant woman. I find an
enormous excitement reading the posts and hearing the views
expressed by the dominant woman in the group, and knowing that
the Yin to my Yang is out there.

My own views on female dominance are fairly simple - there are
just some women in this world that have a certain attitude that
can floor you - whether it is conveyed via the arch of an
eyebrow, a knowing glance, or simply a certain air... and when
you meet women with this attitude, you know, absolutely and
incontrovertibly that you are totally their inferior - you know
that should they desire to break you utterly you would be
powerless to resist them, that once they had finished they could
click their fingers and bring you to your knees, or they could
utter a word and you would crawl on your belly in their presence
just to have the honour of licking the dirt from their boots
knowing all the time that you are lucky to do so.

Yes - there are some women in this world who are, simply,
superior, in every way. And it is to these women that I find
myself uncontrollably drawn, and who elicit in me a desire to
submit myself utterly to them...

This being the case, I would never ask to ever be the sole slave
to a dominant woman - indeed, it would be an absolute
contradiction in terms for me to demand such a thing. No, I
would expect her to have (should she wish) a kennel, stable, or
harem of males that are enslaved and broken beneath her heel,
serving her in any way she desires - maybe even specialising in
different areas according to her desires, serving as her
cleaners, shoppers, manicurists, pedicurists, butlers, even as
her toilet, toilet paper, oral slaves, and lovers.

Indeed - the more she had, the more powerful she would appear in
my eyes, and should she have lovers, I would count myself lucky
to be allowed to serve her by cleaning up after them with my
tongue...

In my fantasies I would be broken and degraded by my mistress,
becoming nothing more than a tongue for her pleasure - and a
mouth for her convenience - she would take me all the way down,
through the depths of submission, until I was truly no more than
her complete and utter slave - addicted to her in every way and
giving my mouth to serve as her toilet, my tongue as her paper,
and obeying her commands without any will left of my own.

She would have me lick the dirt from her boots, and service her
with my tongue whenever she desired, while never allowing me
sexual release, so that my pent up sexual desire became an
overwhelming wave that ever increased her power and hold over
me.

I would be her butler, maid, boot licker, toilet, pussy cleaner,
ass licker, sex toy and all encompassing servant. Still - that's
probably more than enough information for now!

For myself, I am a sub male, 35, living in the UK. I have never
had a truly D/S relationship, though the thought of it fills my
stomach with a strange mixture of excitement, fear, awe and
elation.

As is probably evident from what I have written already, I would
love to hear from dominant women, as I would love to correspond
with them, hear what excites them, drives them, interests them,
their desires - anything they care to talk about or share - and
the idea of corresponding with an online mistress would be
interesting too - I'd love to share fantasies!

Finally - I would like to say a little about our hosts. A while
ago I ordered, I believe, every video available from Christine
and David, along with a couple of web books. They were very
helpful when I ordered, and I received the DVD's quickly. While
I have to admit that on the PC Screen the videos were a little
dark and at times hard to make out, when I put them onto the TV,
they were fine. In terms of content however - they were

p-h-e-n-o-m-e-n-a-l !

I loved watching the stories play out, the action in them was
mind blowing, and, best of all, I was watching them knowing that
Ms Christine is a truly dominant woman. The things that she
writes about, the things that she desires, and turn her on, all
dovetail so closely to my own, that I could feel a reality to
proceedings that you don't tend to get elsewhere.

I loved the films and I would strongly recommend them to anyone.
In short - to put this review in context - if Ms Christine ever
ordered me into her bathtub... I'd be there in a shot!

So thank you our hosts - I've loved your work, I love the posts,
and I'd love to hear from any dom females out there who feel
like educating a green sub.

Ms Christine - please feel free to give my email address out.

femfan@hotmail.co.uk

Thanks all, and my humble apologies for the length, and rambling
of my own email Ms Christine!

Deferentially from his knees, given the number of dominant women
in the audience,

Femfan

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Re: C: In praise of Dominant Women - totally their inferior in UK
Date: 25 May 2009 01:46:46 -0000
From: MichaelK

Femfan wrote about his fantasy, and said that he has "never had
a truly D/S relationship".

Fantasies are fun.

A few people may be lucky enough to actually live out their
fantasy for a short time. And there will even be a very
fortunate few who live this full-time in real life.

But for many of us this is like writing on a dating site "I
would love to meet a woman half my age who is incredibly rich. I
would like to stop working and move into her mansion with her.
She would buy me a fleet of sports cars..."

A great fantasy. And this has probably come true for a few lucky
men. But for most of us this fantasy will never come true, and
trying to find a real-life partner based on this fantasy is
totally unrealistic.

My question for FemFan (and anyone else who feels the same way)
is:

Have you got a milder fantasy that is likely to be achievable in
real life?

And do you think you would be able to enjoy a real-life FemDom
relationship if your Mistress fell far short of the "true
dominant" of your fantasy?

The internet is great for building up more and more intense and
extreme fantasies.

These are great fun, but I fear they can be damaging if people
start to think that they are likely to be able to be made real,
and that the only thing that would make them happy is if these
fantasies become true.

FemDom with a real dominant woman is very different from most
men's fantasies.

And as most men cannot find a real dominant woman, it can be
worth thinking about how mild FemDom can be enjoyed when your
partner is not dominant (eg see my Devotional Sex website).

I find real-life much more fun and satisfying than fantasy!

Cheers,
MichaelK

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Re: C: In praise of Dominant Women - totally their inferior in UK
Date: 27 May 2009 06:37:04 -0000
From: Femfan

Michael,

I agree with you - fantasies are fun, however after that point
we differ - mainly it seems because I don't view DOMestic as a
dating site, and my post wasn't a lonely hearts!

I put in my fantasy scenario and my situation so that people
could understand, in terms of this site, who I was and where I
was coming from, the idea being that people with similar
fantasies (or, if they are lucky, realities!) could respond or
get in touch. It wasn't a shopping list for a mistress, or the
BDSM equivalent of GSOH (if you'll excuse the excess of
acronyms).

If you read my post, it's obvious that I dream of being
submissive to a dominant woman, so the question of her falling
short of my mark is really moot, the issue is more whether I
could meet her standards.

I realise that some might say that laying out my fantasy is
trying to top from the bottom, but I would argue that it's just
showing my hand fully so that any mistress can understand my
drivers, and decide in advance whether she would have any
interest in, or use for me and therefore use them to her
advantage. However, I concede, I could be completely wrong in
doing this and am happy to bow before other people's greater
understanding of the dynamics of a D/S relationship - oh the
perils of being a novice!

Also, rest assured, I don't expect my fantasies to become real
(as I'm sure is the case with many posters and authors on this
site) - and there's a very real chance that were they to start
going that way, I might not be able to cope with the complete
life change they would entail.

I do appreciate your concern for me, however, rest assured I'm
not a destructive Walter Mitty ;-)

To finish, I'm glad that you have a fulfilling and enjoyable
reality that moves in these realms, but I am one of many I am
sure who, for now, enjoys the fantasy of Femdom. I would love to
correspond with people who are truly involved as knowing that
the reality exists, and talking to such powerful women is like
peering over a precipice and feeling giddy at the depth and
power of the desire they create within me.

I hope that my posting doesn't offend anybody out there - I just
wanted to be honest about myself and my lack of experience - I
don't think, however, that I am totally alone in this, and I am
sure, Michael, that however much you enjoy the reality - you've
also enjoyed the odd bit of fiction that has been written by one
of us fantasists in your time...

With deference to the dominant females

FF

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S: In The Bank Manager's Cupboard. Twenty-five
From: "Christine" at u4ds.com
Date: Wed, 27 May 2009 18:45:52 +0100

Previous issues.

In The Bank Manager's Cupboard - by Ms. Christine
Copyright 1986-2009 Christine and David Stevenson

Part Twenty-five

Karin's dinner was superb, the service was excellent.
With the way Christine had her slaves wired up, they
would hardly let her down. Christine had been
experimenting with a new range of electronic and radio
controlled devices.

Karin had a very amusing evening, using and testing the
equipment on Christine's slaves. They agreed on a
package of equipment which would suit Karin's needs and
Christine promised to have an engineer install the
necessary equipment in her flat by the following week.
The radio controlled devices would be linked in to her
telephone system. An idea which Karin thought had great
potential.

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

By the time Karin arrived home that night, David had
not only finished his chores but had prepared dinner in
accordance with Karin's instructions. He had left it in
the oven on warm and rested on his bed for a couple of
hours. He was now downstairs again restlessly awaiting
her arrival, the dinner was sure to be spoiled and that
worried him. He was most uncomfortable in his
restrainer and hoped she would release him.

His luck was in! Karin breezed in, not in the slightest
interested in her meal, and unlocked him. Dropping his
restrainer on the floor she smiled seductively at him.
"Go and have a good wash, I will require your services
on my bed in twenty minutes."

David scuttled away to his room, where while he was
washing, he could hear Karin coming upstairs. Karin had
turned off the oven and inspected the dinner, not bad
for a first attempt, she thought.

David could hear Karin moving around in her bedroom.
"On her bed", she had said. Maybe, just maybe, his luck
was really in. When David was clean and tidy he tapped
timidly on the connecting door.

Karin's voice on the speaker simply said "Wait." He
stood by the door, determined not to risk offending her
by peeking through the keyhole this time. He was in
with a chance and would not ruin it.

Karin took a shower. She kept David waiting much longer
than the twenty minutes. Now she was reclining on her
bed, in her freshly laundered elderberry lingerie. She
didn't normally like to repeat herself so soon, but the
temptation to remind David of the previous evening was
too great. She mused on how she would introduce David
to her new 'toy'. She began running her hands over her
breasts, down to her mound of venus. Already she was
getting hot as she formulated her plan. She depressed
the button over her head and summoned David, who was
still standing awaiting the call.

When David saw Karin in her elderberry coloured outfit
he instantly remembered Karin and the man of the night
before, it had hardly been out of his mind most of the
day. His hopes rose. Maybe she wore those when she was
in a 'certain mood'. His thickening penis stiffened to
a full erection as he stood waiting hopefully where she
indicated, beside her bed.

Karin lowered her eyes and pouted sympathetically, "You
do have a problem with rule two, don't you?" she asked
rhetorically, "and it would seem with rules three and
four."

David quickly knelt and kissed the heels of her court
shoes, "I'm sorry Madam, I thought."

Karin interrupted, "I know what you thought!"

David grovelled in accordance with rule four, listening
attentively to Karin. "I spent the evening with a lady
who, very kindly, is going to put a lot of effort into
finding ways of helping you to obey my rules. She has
also found a way to solve a problem that we both have."

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