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C: When is it monogamy when is it poly?
Date: Tue, 09 Jun 2009 02:35:03 -0000
From: "grape"

I am in a committed Femdom marriage.

We are monogamous, but have flirted with a number of fantasies,
including her being pleasured by numerous sub males, her
participating with other Dommes using me and others, her using
anonymous cocks through a glory hole, me being humiliated by
being forced to perform or be performed on by other sub males (i
am totally straight, but the idea excites me from a deep
submission perspective).

My questions are addressed to only those that have taken this
path.

How does it affect the relationship?

Are there limits you can go to safely, like for example her
administering punishment to others with perhaps no genital
contact, or me being whipped by other Dommes in front of her
with no other contact from the other dommes?

Have you found it has enhanced or destroyed your relationship or
neither, and if so over what time frame?

What advice would you give based on your experiences?

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Re: C: keeping sub hubby nude - chastity a start?
Date: Mon, 15 Jun 2009 11:49:13 -0000
From: JoRo

Ashley wrote:

>any suggestions on making my sub hubby stay nude at home?

Lockable shoes. Connect them with a chain or whatever and he
can't put any pants on.

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Re: C: keeping sub hubby nude - chastity a start?
Date: 9 Jun 2009 01:26:49 -0000
From: chastitize

I think you answer the question yourself.

Yes force him to do what you want, that is what he wants, to be
dominated by you and for you to be in total control of him. To
grant or deny his pleasure for good behaviour.

Come on Lady take him by balls and be firm with him!

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C: femdom - how to show my wife the joys
Date: Sun, 14 Jun 2009 17:11:42 -0000
From: "stretchjdh"

how do i show my wife the joys of my being feminized and
domesticated to satisfy and worship only her

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Re: C: femdom - how to show my wife the joys
Date: 15 Jun 2009 09:35:37 -0000
From: chastitize

Hi stretchjdh take a look at elsie sutton website it help me to
turn my wife into the Mistress/Key Holder I desired.

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Re: C: femdom - how to show my wife the joys
Date: Mon, 15 Jun 2009 13:40:37 +0100
From: "David" at u4ds.com

Hello,

chastitize wrote:

>elsie sutton

I think it likely that you mean "elise" not "elsie"

It may help stretchjdh if you explain further.

Why not tell us what you actually learned from any particular
web site, and how you put what you learned into action. What did
your partner like when you did it, and how did she react?

sincerely,
David

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C: good femdom retreat?
Date: Wed, 10 Jun 2009 06:02:59 -0700 (PDT)
From: j boy

anyone on the list know of a good femdom retreat aside from the
owk? been googling my little heart out but haven't come up with
much

jboy

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Re: C: good femdom retreat?
Date: 10 Jun 2009 19:01:53 -0000
From: Miss_Sarina

I know that the Femdomsociety has a retreat, never been there
and not sure how good it is. It looks as if it is quite new.
Might be worth checking it out.

www.femdommesociety.com

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Re: C: good femdom retreat?
From: "Christine" at u4ds.com
Date: Wed, 10 Jun 2009 22:47:42 +0100

Hello,

Miss_Sarina wrote:

>Might be worth checking it out.

Thanks Miss Sarina, information is often requested on "retreats"
and Fem Dom vacations by folk reading DOMestic. So I was eager
to find out more. I took a look at the site and found very
little femdom retreat information in the public area, what there
is you'll find here.

To get further information one has to register, and that
requires both location and date of birth. As I'm not prepared to
give that information to any web site, I lied about my date of
birth.

The site asks for a lot more information, and I chose
"unspecified" wherever it was permitted.

At the end of the 3 stage process I got the following error...

"Mysql error: Duplicate entry '' for key 6"

Jboy - What information we have is as follows...

There are various sections in the right hand menu of the
DOMestic blog under "Vacations" where folk have posted reports
on their vacation experiences. They are listed as "Camping",
"Dungeon Rental", "Experiences", "Resorts - Retreats" and
"Things to Do". You might take a look at those for some info.

Amanece recommended "La Domaine in NY" after her visit in March
of 2008 and her post on that may interest you.

Also, before "Googling" any more of your heart away we suggest
starting at the site we host on our servers, which has a section
at:-

dungeonnet.com/weblinks/Rentals/

where folk can and do register links to their web sites for
retreats and the like. I can't recommend any myself, but it's a
good place to start looking.

As always, if anyone has more recommendations to send in they
are welcome here, especially if you've visited and enjoyed your
stay.

sincerely,
Christine at u4ds.com

My FemDom manuals are at:-
http://www.mschristine.com/manual.shtml

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Re: C: Birdlocked male chastity belt in silicone
Date: Wed, 10 Jun 2009 15:24:21 -0500
From: Super A

Tom,

Contact me privately.

Super A

supera@iaxs.net
email address info

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Re: C: Birdlocked male chastity belt in silicone
Date: Wed, 10 Jun 2009 06:02:59 -0700 (PDT)
From: j boy

Hi

we purchased a birdlocked ourselves, this was after purchasing
what we thought was a cb3000 but turned out to be a cheaper
imitation that cracked and crazed and after a session with duct
tape now gathers dust, (if you want to go this route i recommend
not trying to save a few dollars and buying direct from the
producer)

As for the birdlocked - though a little tricky getting on... it
is quite comfortable and my wife likes the look of it (bubblegum
pink) but depending on your anatomy it is very easy to pull out
of... and this was without adding lube for me.

If you are a little bigger girth wise a little lube would afford
you the same results i'm sure. I haven't tried to get back in
but i'd wager i could.

this has made chastity a lot less enjoyable for both of us and
am now looking for something more secure... perhaps a full belt.
yes these are far more expensive but if i had bought a "cs 100"
from "chastity steel" in the first place i would have spent the
same as trying the others... or less since we are leaning that
way now anyway.

though there are some review sites out there for the various
types and styles there is little easy to find and comprehensive
sites out there. your mileage may vary... but good luck to you!

jboy

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Re: C: Birdlocked male chastity belt in silicone
Date: Thu, 11 Jun 2009 00:07:31 +0100
From: "David" at u4ds.com

Hello,

j boy wrote:

>we purchased a birdlocked ourselves -snip- it is very easy to
>pull out of -snip- I haven't tried to get back in but i'd wager
>i could.

You sound a lot like me j boy. For me a chastity belt would have
to be both escape proof and comfortable, which I'm inclined to
think is a contradiction in terms. Especially for certain body
types.

Failing those two requirements, it would have to be impossible
to get back into after escaping, so that one is "caught" by
being out of it at inspection time.

However, Christine would find the latter unsatisfactory. If she
locked me up she would like to know that she could safely forget
all about the matter until I came to her and begged for release.
She would be very angry if she was waiting for the begging,
confident in my imprisonment, and all along I was free but
hadn't owned up to it. She would feel tricked!

The whole process thus becomes something potentially negative
between us, and bad for the relationship. So we decided that it
would be better no belt at all than one which sets up such
counter productive situations. Christine opted for questioning
and punishment as a better control mechanism.

We're still waiting to hear consistent reports of a belt which
satisfies her requirements, but meantime we can manage quite
well with our homemade "toys". If we want a belt that doesn't
satisfy all the requirements we have several homemade devices
which are adequate for "play" purposes and we don't need to
spend a fortune on more "toys".

>now looking for something more secure... perhaps a full belt.
>yes these are far more expensive but if i had bought a "cs 100"
>from "chastity steel" in the first place i would have spent the
>same as trying the others... or less since we are leaning that
>way now anyway

I saw one positive report by slaveplaydoh on DOMestic in May
2007 on the "chastity steel" belt.

As yours is the second mention I recall seeing here I did a
Google search for "chastity steel" today and a German language
site was number one in the results. I understand that site is
now the maker's web site, and that the site doesn't have an
English version.

So, if like me, some readers don't understand German, here is a
link that will, courtesy of Google, present a translation of the
site into English.

fetisch-felix.de - translated

This is not a recommendation or otherwise. I'm just providing
the translation link for those who want to see and read about
the product you mention.

>there are some review sites out there for the various types
>and styles

Yes, here is a Google link to various web sites which the
results seem to suggest offer some reviews both good and bad for
the "cs 100" from "chastity steel"

sincerely,
David at Ms-Christine.com

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Re: X: Fictionmania
Date: 14 Jun 2009 20:22:30 -0000
From: MissE

For those who have asked in the past. Fictionmania is back:

http://www.fictionmania.tv/enter.html

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S: In The Bank Manager's Cupboard. Part Twenty-eight
From: "Christine" at u4ds.com
Date: Sat, 13 Jun 2009 13:51:40 +0100

Previous issues.

In The Bank Manager's Cupboard - by Ms. Christine
Copyright 1986-2009 Christine and David Stevenson

Part Twenty-eight

David predictably took himself in hand as soon as the
door closed upon him. Despite the light being on, and
knowing she was watching, he could not help himself.
The frustration was just too much, he could hold off no
longer. As he jerked his red raw prick to orgasm, with
his second prick still waggling in front of his face,
his orgasm was accompanied by pain and a sense of
degradation. She had USED his face, and PUNISHED his
prick. She had insulted him, and then cruelly dismissed
him. Yet despite all of this ill treatment he had
remained sexually excited. So much so that he could not
resist jerking off. That was the final irony, the
ultimate degradation, recognising his own excitement at
what she did to him. She had even managed to make his
own stolen pleasure a humiliating experience. Even as
he ejaculated the thought of the punishment he was at
that moment earning was with him.

David eventually managed to remove the hood and wash
the dildo. He tidied the room and cleaned up the mess
he had made. He retired to bed, but his sexual
excitement would not dissipate and over the next hour
he masturbated twice more to orgasm. He may as well be
hung for a sheep as a lamb, he thought. He tried to
limit his movement beneath the covers, but with little
success. It was so frustrating to have to try and steal
your pleasure secretly, and so unfair! He realised
fully that there was every probability that she had
taped his disobedience, and was not looking forward to
the consequences that would probably follow.

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In the morning, over breakfast, Karin skimmed though
her videotape. She was of course secretly pleased, he
was so easy to manipulate that he virtually did it to
himself. Give him enough rope, she thought, and he ties
himself up. Paraphrasing the old adage caused her to
laugh inwardly. She now had the perfect reason to give
David the same treatment he had suffered on Monday
morning. There was little doubt in her mind that now he
almost believed he deserved it. That was the kind of
man she liked.

Before leaving for the office, she once again marched
David to her bathroom and locked him in place. There
she administered her 'suitable treatment for toilet
perverts'. "Not a punishment," she told him, "just a
reminder of what he was." She warned him that his real
punishment for breaking rule five would be severe, and
would be administered that evening.

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Karin returned home that evening in a particularly
cheerful mood. She removed David's restrainer and
relaxing in front of the TV told David to change into
his uniform and prepare her evening meal. Karin was
flicking idly from channel to channel with the remote
control as David laid the table for her.

David was made to stand at Karin's side as she ate her
meal. Although she appeared distracted by a the
financial news on the television, her hand wandered
absently, stroking David's thighs. She delved
unconsciously into his panties and stroked his
genitalia, once again causing David's arousal, to
Karin's amusement and his not unrelated discomfiture.
She did so like the idea of men being embarrassed by
their own sexuality. She loved it when they felt guilty
at their natural condition, and it was so easy to make
them feel that way.

Karin tired of this diversion and dismissed David. In
his aroused condition he returned to his duties in the
kitchen, and to his own meal, which was the mashed up
remnants of the dinner he had prepared for her the day
before. Karin went upstairs to prepare herself for the
evening she had arranged, she wanted to look her best
for the company she had invited. When she returned
downstairs she was carrying steel handcuffs.

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