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C: penis plug urethral play
Date: 15 Aug 2009 19:02:30 -0000
From: j_stimmt

Hello,

I recently mail-ordered a penis plug and my queen has agreed to
use it on me this weekend as a birthday treat in combination
with severely administered spankings from her riding crop.

My only prior experience with urethral play was when I was
masturbating as a teenager and used some lubricant and a Q-tip.
I didn't really know what I was doing at the time and for added
effect, I strapped a rubber band around my cock.

A day later, blood was coming out of my urethra and I was
totally freaked out.

So, it's with some trepidation that I venture back into this
type of play with my beloved queen. I know to sterilize the plug
with rubbing alcohol before using it and to use a water-soluble
lubricant for easier insertion.

I am also fearing that my queen/wife will get freaked and change
her mind about doing this.

Anyone else out there have experiences with / suggestions about
urethral play?

Thanks,
j_stimmt

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Re: C: penis plug urethral play
Date: 19 Aug 2009 00:31:31 -0000
From: Sensual Femdom

I engage in some urethral play with my submissive husband, j.

I ordered a penis plug for him several years ago, but was
disappointed when I was unable to get it in. Some time after
that I ordered a set of urethral sounds, which I use on j fairly
regularly. I must admit that initially I used the sounds with
quite a bit of trepidation, as I was fearful of causing serious
physical harm. With careful use, however, they are pretty safe.
You may want to consider using a sterile lubricant. Stockroom
and most D/s sites sell it.

j experiences very strong sensations when I use the sounds on
him, and though his urethra is still too narrow for the penis
plug, I am sure that one day I will have it stretched out
enough.

I have blogged about this in the past. Feel free to check those
posts out. Let me know if you have any questions, and have fun!

(link displays on blog)

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Re: C: penis plug urethral play
Date: 19 Aug 2009 03:06:53 -0000
From: j_stimmt

Sensual Femdom,

Thanks for your reply. Interesting about the penis plug being
too big for your husband's urethra. The one I ordered was a
"starter" plug, designed to penetrate, but not to stretch so
much. My assumption is that one gradually increases the
thickness of the plug over time until larger ones can be used.

But... I read somewhere online - the exact reference escapes me
now - that stretching the urethra too much can cause a urinary
tract infection because after the play is done, urinating can
cause small amounts of urine to be trapped inside a pocket
created by the stretching and then causes bacteria to grow (I
tried to find the original weblink for this claim, but was
unable). Anyway, this freaks me out a little, but my involvement
is not nearly as intense as the thickness of what I imagine a
sound might be.

BTW, my wife did freak out when it came down to using the plug.
Beforehand, she expressed her fears and we decided that she
would "order" me to insert the plug in myself. After I did this,
she asked me to take it out because she felt she could not go on
with the scene - it was scaring her too much.

I offered to show her some of my research online - there are a
couple of doctors who have written small articles on the safe
use of penis plugs.

Any other suggestions on what I can do to help her feel more
comfortable with this type of play?

She doesn't seem to have a problem with snapping a clothespin on
the end of my cock, it's just the penetration part that she has
trouble with.

j_stimmt

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Re: C: Fem Dom games and contests couples and bdsm groups
Date: 13 Aug 2009 18:48:37 -0000
From: kink marshall

slaveboy wrote:

>I for one would love to hear ideas, as well as what "events"
>you are going to.

The two events that Mistress signed us up for is Sacramento
Heat, a 2 day, 2 night BDSM event here in Central California.
The other is a local group who gets together monthly. This will
be our first time.

One "contest" that has alway intrigued me is a tug of war,
between two slaves. A single rope is tied to each slaves balls,
a line is made between them, and the tug starts. A Mistress
could spur them on with a cane or paddle, to help their slave
win. I am not sure what kind of damage could be done... it may
not be safe. But, I have a picture in my files that i have had
for years showing that kind of contest.

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Re: C: Fem Dom games and contests couples and bdsm groups
Date: 14 Aug 2009 23:17:53 -0000
From: Michael Moran

Catch and release is a game that a few of my lifestyle friends
invented.

Here in the midwest, we spend a lot of time out at the Forest
Preserve. One day, a couple of the girls were sitting around,
talking about inventing some new pastime they could enjoy.

The game has been one of those games that they have been adding
new rules to all the time.

On the outskirts of this Forest Preserve there is a two mile
cinder paved, bike path that winds around the lake and deep into
the woods.

This is a game played after midnight, after the Forest Preserve
is closed to the public, both ends of this path has public
access from near by side roads.

At one end of the path, a naked male sub is told he has one half
hour to make it to the other end of the trail, without being
caught, or seen.

After a five minute head start, a team of 3 girls are placed on
the same trail in pursuit.

While at the meantime, another team of three girls are placed in
pursuit at the far end of the trail.

The male sub, must elude both teams and make it to his
destination, or he has lost his ride home.

If one of the teams capture the sub, they are the winners who
take him home with them for one week, to remain in their
service, before earning his clothes back, on the day he is
released.

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Re: C: Fem Dom games and contests couples and bdsm groups
Date: 16 Aug 2009 02:25:55 -0000
From: Lauren5Pts

In the late 90's, an author named Tigger created "The Cabal"
universe. The Cabal was a large lifestyle organization, and one
of the things they did was to hold _Domination Games_ (DG), the
title of a story Tigger wrote.

The DG subjected volunteer female (for this story's timeframe
and plot line) slaves to contests that included Musical Chairs
(slaves must impale themselves on plugs and dildos affixed to
stools), 100 Yard Dash (while holding the stools in place by
their anal muscles), Spear Throw (jerking off male slaves), and
Knife Fight (using dildos with handles - points for insertion in
any orifice, win for inducing an orgasm).

Tigger's stories are available from several TG Fiction sites.

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Re: C: Fem Dom games and contests couples and bdsm groups
Date: 18 Aug 2009 19:43:58 -0000
From: slaveboy

kink marshall wrote:

>"The two events that Mistress signed us up for is Sacramento
>Heat, a 2 day, 2 night BDSM event here in Central California."

Thanks. Good Luck!

>"One "contest" that has alway intrigued me is a tug of war,
>between two slaves. A single rope is tied to each slaves
>balls, a line is made between them, and the tug starts. A
>Mistress could spur them on with a cane or paddle, to help
>their slave win. I am not sure what kind of damage could be
>done... it may not be safe. But, I have a picture in my files
>that i have had for years showing that kind of contest."

Mmmm... that is a delicious contest to imagine, but alas would
most likely cause damage unless it was done very cautiously.

On the other hand, it would be a little safer if the whole
package and not just the balls were tied up. Annnd, maybe tieing
with something that has some elasticity would (possibly) make it
do-able. (If not it would still be an entertaining game even if
the slaves were attached at another place)

I believe my Mistress would find it amusing to watch either way.

I cannot imagine how humbling it would be to be signed up for a
game at an event that offered many different contests. Mistress
takes you, tells you to keep quiet and goes about entering you
in whatever games amuse her. Can't wait to ask her if she would
like that if given the chance :-)

Going crazy as I'm into my 9th week of chastity... felt like I
was going to get angry on Sunday afternoon, but it faded by
night time after some needed attitude adjustments.

Catch and release game sounded great also.

ChastityHeaven

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C: Mistress and her maid - part four
From: sissy maid wendy
Date: Sat, 15 Aug 2009 01:24:30 +0000

Mistress and her maid - part four

the maid was summoned to report and prepare the dungeons for use
by Mistress Genevieve

Dungeons cleaned, one converted to a school room and toilets
cleaned. Uniform worn was red apron and sheer see through black
panties only.

Mistress Ayla's champagne was chilled, with the maid dressing in
uniform and waiting Madam's return - due to Madam Ayla's late
return the maid waited dressed for one and a half hours, then
changed back to street wear.

Madam returned, maid served drinks, followed Madam to dungeon
for inspection and foot worship of Madam - as maid was bent over
the bench and ordered to lower trousers and underwear for use of
the cane by his Mistress, 6 strokes were applied.

The maid reported for service the following afternoon to clean
house and prepare for Mistress Genevieve to use.

maid wore the summer formal uniform.

maid dressed Mistress Genevieve for her session, served drinks
to her Mistress in mixed company and sat with her Mistress
whilst she waited and listened to Mistress Genevieve conducting
her training.

wendy on this day, was again denied an orgasm even though he sat
next to her owner.

After household inspection the maid was placed over his
Mistress' knees, with her skirt raised, his punishment was a
spanking of over 300 caresses of Madam's hand, before Madam
reached for the cane to administer 8 strokes with it.

The maid was dismissed with no pleasure or relief, but with his
balls so full and him so needing relief, she was to be allowed
to use her Mistress' property and empty herself later that night
when alone - when she did there was a very large amount and it
seemed to take forever to finish.

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S: In The Bank Manager's Cupboard. Part Thirty-five
From: "Christine" at u4ds.com / MsChristine.com
Date: Fri, 21 Aug 2009 16:41:33 +0100

Previous issues.

In The Bank Manager's Cupboard - by Ms. Christine
Copyright 1986-2009 Christine and David Stevenson

Part Thirty-five

Christine and Sadine were fascinated by the spectacle of
eroticism that now surrounded them. Marique and Madam Kwai
opposite each other, but consumed by their own climaxes, each
was ignorant of anything but David's scarlet writhing posterior.

Karin and Catrina were still facing each other over David. Karin
was concentrating intently on the task of administering the
cane. Catrina admiring the skill, the movement and impact. David
on top of Brian, both of them absorbing the force, David's
searing agony and Brian's humiliating discomfort.

Pippa and Adra were both acutely aware of the penalty for
failing, with the caning in the background to remind them. Both
of them were devoted utterly to providing pleasure.

Lastly 'Table' and 'Toilet', 'Table' aware of his Mistress'
pleasure, consumed with jealousy and the degradation of the
buzzing presence of the Vibrator. 'Toilet' confined in silence,
ignorant of everything but his continuing debasement.

Christine and Sadine were in the perfect position to appreciate
all of this, together with the memory of the ignominy that they
had just subjected 'Toilet' to.

Karin collapsed into her armchair when her duties were complete,
Marique and Madam Kwai had been satisfied.

Catrina whispered something to Karin and left the company. She
was now ready to fully appreciate the pleasure of using
'Toilet', and Sadine had said that she could do so at her
leisure.

As she left she asked Sadine to unlock David and Brian, and to
send David up to his room. "Cuff David's hands behind him
please, and do what you like with Brian," she suggested.

After David had been sent to his room, his hands now secured
behind his back, Karin turned on the video screen downstairs.
Catrina had suggested the idea, she was still in with the
'Toilet', but Karin told the assembled company that they could
expect to watch Catrina in action shortly.

Catrina was both an exhibitionist and a sadist. She was pleased
to have the opportunity to perform in a way that would satisfy
both desires.

Sadine settled Brian on his back at her feet, using his leather
covered genitals as her footrest. Her stiletto heels causing
both pain and stimulation. Male stimulation, she believed,
should always be as painful as possible.

Karin ordered Pippa to refresh everyone's drinks and then to
take up a standing position at her side.

Marique borrowed Sadine's idea and re-gagging Adra, had her lie
at her feet, using her breasts as cushions.

Christine opened her bag and took out her latest invention. She
sat on the sofa next to Madam Kwai and they went into a
conference about the items Christine was explaining.

Christine's Faradic device was a broad belt designed to strap
around the waist of a slave. The belt contained many batteries
similar to those used nowadays in instant camera film packs. The
unit was controlled by a remote radio control, somewhat like a
dimmer switch.

On this occasion the belt was linked to two expanding metal
bands, like expansion watch straps. One was designed to fit
behind the penis head, the other around the scrotum sack. When
the device is switched on, the electric current passes from one
strap to another. Both straps are switched to current receivers
if required, the current then passes from the belt, through the
lower torso to the genital straps.

As a Mistress becomes more experienced and skilful she can vary
the route and intensity of the current, thus she can subject her
slave to any level of pain or pleasure she desires. She can, if
she wishes, bring about an orgasm without pleasure, quickly or
slowly. She can bring about repeated climaxes without break for
rest, something which the male of the species often finds
nauseating. The scope for female amusement is virtually
limitless.

Christine was enthusiastic about one aspect particularly. The
ability to drain a slave without giving him gratification. "It's
long been recognised," she explained, "that for health reasons
the male needs to expel his ejaculate, or he suffers from a
condition known as blue balls, not to mention getting uppity.
The frequency varies, but once a week should more than suffice.
With this device the male can be regularly milked dry without
allowing any lust or disrespect, let alone pleasure."

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This story is one of over 400 stories you can read on the
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http://www.mschristine.com/domsub4.shtml

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