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glennbonne mentioned:

>"i am seeking a dom woman or couple to own me. anything goes, i
>know where i need to be, at a woman's feet to serve"

"Anything" encompasses a lot. We will own you, just send us all
your cash after you empty your bank account. (sorry folks,
couldn't resist)

Please don't say "Anything goes" if you don't want to give up
everything - including your life. Thanks

i would love to spend the rest of my life at a woman's feet.
This is where i belong. Can anyone help me?

Glenn Bonne wrote:

>i would love to spend the rest of my life at a woman's feet.
>This is where i belong. Can anyone help me?

What about a job as a shoe salesman?

Hello,

pussikat steve wrote:

>What about a job as a shoe salesman?

I assume that was a joke. On a more serious note, my post
entitled "New York State and meeting kinky folk" might be a more
helpful suggestion:-

http://u4ds.com/2009/10/new_york_state_and_meeting_kin.shtml

In my fantasy fiction "In The Bank Manager's Cupboard" which
members can read at:-

http://u4ds.com/2007/12/bank_managers_cupboard_1.shtml

a thirty year old shoe store worker gets "taken" by a very
dominant Karin. But real life rarely works that way.

In real life meeting real people socially, and/or meeting like
minded kinky folk at bdsm munches has a better chance of
success.

Also see:-

http://u4ds.com/meet_like_minded_kinky_people.shtml

sincerely,
Christine at Ms-Christine.com

Renew or get your DOMestic password at
http://www.mschristine.com/domsub4.shtml

pussikat steve wrote:

>What about a job as a shoe salesman?

Christine replied:

>I assume that was a joke.

Actually, I was going to write in that I'd met a submissive with
a foot/shoe fetish at an upscale department store. I think I may
have posted about it here quite a long time ago.

He used to fall all over himself trying to serve me, positioning
himself in what appeared to him to be my path, which I
frequently changed just to see for how long he would follow me
around waiting to be asked to get a pair of shoes for me to try
on.

When he would put the shoes on my feet he became very
deliberate, (ritualistic, in fact) in the way he would kneel at
my feet, hold my foot, slide the shoe on, etc. Even his
positioning at my feet was very deliberate - eyes down, knees
slightly parted, etc.

A vanilla woman probably would not have noticed but I'm certain
any dominant woman would've picked up on that naughty boy's self-
indulgence.

I'd imagine if the submissive was subservient enough and
attractive enough to the lady that it might be a productive way
to meet a dominant woman.

Hello,

pussikat steve wrote:

>What about a job as a shoe salesman?

I replied:

>I assume that was a joke.

Madamplz wrote:

>I was going to write in that I'd met a submissive with
>a foot/shoe fetish at an upscale department store

Thank you Madam. My apologies to pussikat steve if his
suggestion was not a joke.

Madamplz also wrote:

>if the submissive was subservient enough and attractive enough
>to the lady that it might be a productive way to meet a
>dominant woman.

You are right of course, it might be productive.

The point is that if you limit yourself to online or just one
form of contact and don't put yourself out there in the real
world market place, your chances of finding "Ms Right" are
reduced.

The hopeful submissive might be right under Ms Right's nose
already, and she may be looking for one just like you, but you
may not be putting out appropriate signals for her to pick up
on.

Contact in the work-place is an established and statistically
successful way of forming lifelong relationships. If your tastes
are of a particular nature, then meeting folk of similar tastes
socially at a venue designed for that purpose must increase the
odds, at least a little, in your favour.

My post entitled "New York State and meeting kinky folk" does
have some helpful suggestions on that:-

http://u4ds.com/2009/10/new_york_state_and_meeting_kin.shtml

While it might be amusing to fill the world's shoe stores with
hopeful submissives as shop assistants, I don't think I'd
advocate that a submissive should change his career without at
first trying some social events like munches.

sincerely,
Christine at Ms-Christine.com

Renew or get your DOMestic password at
http://www.mschristine.com/domsub4.shtml

Hello,

You don't have to give up a main career to take advantage of the
possibilities of meeting folk through work.

Christine and I met indirectly through a part time occupation of
at home selling. Specifically it was jewellery parties in our
case, but it could have been anything which increased the amount
of people we met in business and/or socially. Whether it be
parties for a brand name range of plastic kitchen items or any
other product, your chances are increased the more people you
meet.

It seems to me that an at home party organiser would be in the
perfect position to meet people, and if he encountered a
suitable hard working and single dominant woman, he might find
himself with a suitable opening to offer a little extra
curricular help with the housework. It might be an intro.

sincerely,
David

Download "Games People Play" by David at
http://www.mschristine.com/manual.shtml

Ms Christine wrote:

>if you limit yourself to online or just one form of contact
>and don't put yourself out there in the real world market
>place, your chances of finding "Ms Right" are reduced. The
>hopeful submissive might be right under Ms Right's nose
>already, and she may be looking for one just like you, but you
>may not be putting out appropriate signals for her to pick up

Yes, I agree. I wouldn't suggest anyone give up his day job to
become a shoe salesman just to find a mistress. I see submissive
men everywhere, in all walks of life. I have worked for several
and I have employed several as well. I make it a point not to
engage with anyone with whom I work, however.

Not putting out appropriate signals is probably the largest
reason submissive men don't find Ms Right.

I'm thinking of someone I met when I was in my late teens. He
was about 40 and someone I'd met through work but with whom I
did not work directly. He was a subcontractor to my employer but
whatever my employer needed from him was ordered by me and
followed up on by me.

He was appealing in a bookish sort of way; pleasant, unassuming
and deferential. Whenever I thanked him for his completed
assignments he would always respond "My pleasure". It would have
been a very short step to state and perhaps even get what he
really wanted but it into a giant leap by him overstating his
willingness to give me what he thought I should have but did not
show me what he wanted. I felt alarmed, not charmed.

In retrospect he might have accomplished his purpose by not
overextending himself so quickly. Had he simply told me with
some emphasis that he liked taking orders from me I probably
would have understood the nature of the relationship he wanted.
Instead he blurted out what I'm sure he thought was a fabulous
offer - a life of luxury, a home, a car without telling me why
he wanted to provide these things for me.

He did not know me beyond our professional association so his
overly generous offer seemed completely inappropriate and I
turned him down. I think it was a missed opportunity for both of
us. It would be another ten years, at least, before I understood
why vanilla men never held any long-lasting appeal for me. He
could have saved us both a lot of trouble.

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