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C: chastity for small penis?
Date: Fri, 16 Oct 2009 20:33:03 -0400
From: Danielle

I have tried the CB 3000 on my slave however his penis is so
small that it won't stay locked on. Does anyone know if the CB
6000 will work any better on really small penises, i.e., one
half inch when flaccid.

Thanks!

Danielle

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Re: C: dog service for husband?
Date: 14 Oct 2009 13:26:12 -0000
From: shywon

charanjeet matharu wrote:

>I once read something when you made your slave a dog and
>enjoyed the moments spent with it. I hope you will be kind
>enough to repeat the same or send me the details

Well, every dog needs a collar, and maybe a tail.

Dogs can not speak but can whimper and bark. Some dogs like to
sniff privates and may get punished for it.

There is show training... doggie on hands and knees on a coffee
table holding still, chin up while it's owner inspects every
inch...

Puppy could have to pee in the backyard or maybe a bathtub on
all 4's.

There are dog masks to be found if you like that. A personalized
bowl to eat cereal from. If you have a really bad puppie, a dog
zapper strapped around the testicles with you holding the button
should keep him in line...

Your imagination is the only limit.

shywon

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C: semi-public humiliation ideas?
Date: Fri, 16 Oct 2009 20:32:03 -0400
From: Danielle

We are going to San Francisco next month. I would like to give
him a dose of semi-public humiliation that he will never forget.
Any ideas?

Thanks!

Danielle

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Re: C: semi-public humiliation ideas?
Date: 18 Oct 2009 04:45:06 -0000
From: shywon

Danielle wrote:

>a dose of semi-public humiliation that he will never forget.
>Any ideas?

Is he homophobic? Take him to MR S leathers on 8th? street and
show him all the scary dildos and other fun equipment, have him
try on some tight shorts, halters etc.... and ask men in the
store if he looks nice in it.... or send him in alone to shop
and try things on and you can stroll in alone to watch.

Of course there is always the old... slap in the face in the
elevator full of people telling him to keep his hands to
himself... pervert... if you don't mind involving others, but
then there is the chance someone could take offense and do
something you may not like.

shywon

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Re: C: Chastity Question, Is "Milking" Just The Myth That I Think It Is?
Date: Sat, 17 Oct 2009 02:02:26 -0700 (PDT)
From: Pietro Bianchi

Paradiddle wrote:

>77 years old -snip- active sex life -snip- Not so when I was 26
>-snip- age of 30 -snip- I had a hardened prostate gland -snip-
>I was told that my condition was usually due to not using my
>prostate and not having sex -snip- sent 3 times a week to the
>hospital to have my prostate massaged. -snip- eventually semen
>was extracted and I was pronounced cured. My doctor told me to
>regularly masturbate if I was not getting sex and I followed
>his instructions. -snip- Pietro what can you say about this?
>Prostate massage certainly got my juices flowing.

There are people who claim to have cured a cancer using vitamin
C, there are people who have smoked 60 cigarettes a day for life
and have not got lung cancer or other health problems...

For some people, in some circumstances, it MAY BE that prostate
milking is a good help... but, as I said, there is NO SCIENTIFIC
evidence on that.

There is research about the frequency of ejaculation and
prostate cancer: the men who ejaculate less get more cancer.
This might be INTERPRETED by the same token as the fact that
people who have less frequent bowel movements get more bowel
cancer, etc etc. There is PROBABLY a build up of carcinogenic
stuff in the body, which is better when expelled more often than
not.

Then comes the "speculative" part: ejaculation is an active
process, involving muscle in the prostate AND in other parts of
the male genital system. Massaging is a passive process where
the prostate, or better, only a part of the prostate (and part
of the seminal vesicles in case the massaging finger is long
enough and the technique is correct), is squeezed and the "extra
fluid" inside is then drained. Nobody knows how much of the
total amount is expelled, and sometimes massaging could "break"
something in the gland, and squeeze the fluid inside the gland,
producing irritation/infection.

See these two PubMed dot Gov links:

Prostate massage with unwanted consequences. Case report

A case of Fournier's gangrene: was it triggered by prostatic massage?

Fact: prostate massage is not recommended any longer, at least
in Europe. There is some ongoing research on the topic, but no
clear cut conclusions.

Regular ejaculation is recommended. Arousal, for longer periods
of time, with no ejaculation, is known to engorge the prostate
and all other glands involved is producing semen.

I have some PubMed dot Gov links to scientific articles on the
topic:

Evaluation of prostatic massage in treatment of chronic prostatitis

Repetitive prostatic massage therapy for chronic refractory prostatitis:
the Philippine experience

Prostatitis unplugged? Prostatic massage revisited

My post was just a thought, I am not stating a scientific
evidence.

I am not saying that teasing and denial is unhealthy, but there
are reasons to think that it MIGHT be unhealthy, and there are
no reasons to think that prostate milking is a 100% safe
solution to the POSSIBLE harm of this practice.

In my personal opinion the statement: "teasing and denial for
weeks / months IS safe as long as the prostate is massaged on a
regular basis, and/or the man gets wet dreams every now and
then" is, at best, AN OPINION. There is NOTHING scientific to
really support it.

Having said that, there might be some people who are happy,
function at their best and have a very long life with heavy
teasing and life long denial. Good for them! This is not the
point. There are people who are happy smoking a lot, taking
heavy drugs, sleeping too little, having high blood pressure,
and so on and so forth.

Another issue which should be kept in mind is that on this list
we are a so called "selected population".

If you talk to "average" people, there are A LOT of men who
cannot stand teasing and denial for longer than some HOURS. Is
there anyone here who knows the percentage of men who are or
would be happy (psychologically AND physically) being denied for
weeks/months? I don't.

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C: New York State and meeting kinky folk
From: "Christine" at u4ds.com
Date: Thu, 15 Oct 2009 18:24:32 +0100

Hello,

In "out of the closet Phoenicia NY" glennbonne wrote:

>i live in NY, a town called Phoenicia not too far from
>Kingston, exit 19 off the thruway

Your best bet is likely to be to join some groups and attend
some munches in Albany, Binghamton, Hudson Valley, and elsewhere
in Up State New York.

If you have already read my own post "how to find and meet like
minded kinky people" at:-

http://u4ds.com/meet_like_minded_kinky_people.shtml

you will know that the best way to find your dream is to get out
and meet people. I mention "munches" there. A munch is a social
get together, a gathering of like minded folk, not a kinky play
party. Not everywhere has a local munch group. But if you drive
to your nearest group you may find other folk like you have
attended from your home town. You'll make friends and
connections, and if all goes to plan then soon you'll move from
meeting kinky people to meeting the right person.

I explain in the post above how to write a longer ad, that will
be more likely to get helpful replies, but it's no substitute
for meeting people.

I also explain in the post linked above how to put some effort
in yourself and use a search engine (or DOMestic) to find
munches in your area. I put that effort in today for you, and
after a couple of hours I managed to put together some links
which you may find useful.

First I found Phoenicia NY on Google Maps and then zoomed out to
look for larger places near you. then I searched for "bdsm
munch" with the name of each of the major places....

AlbanyKink has a calendar of events, both local and regional.

Albany Power Exchange has a similar page of events. That page
has links to munches, and from there you can also get to
calendars for the coming months.

The Binghamton Society of Kink has a Yahoo group.

Hudson Valley Ds (HVDs) has a web site, and Hudson Valley D/s
Community has a Yahoo Group.

Up State New York Kink has a web site and there you will find
two small buttons which link to munches and events with a link
to the UpStateNewYorkBDSM Yahoo Group.

Domina at FrugalDomme has a page for New York State Groups.

For other folk, not up to spending time on searching yourself,
The the Frugal Domme Website has links to munches and groups all
over the USA and elsewhere in the world.

Hope that helps.

sincerely,
Christine at u4ds.com

Renew or get your DOMestic password at
http://www.mschristine.com/domsub4.shtml#card

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Re: P: fag pig dog bitch - online or phone slave
Date: 13 Oct 2009 17:41:53 -0000
From: Michele

Madamplz wrote:

>I once nailed the penis of a priest to a cross of his choosing.

Madam, the Marquis de Sade would have loved that!

Did the priest pray while he was nailed to the cross?

Keep up the good work!

Michele

PS to Christine: I too am writing an erotic novel for Internet
publication, but it's in French! I'll give the link to anyone
interested.

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Re: P: out of the closet Phoenicia NY
Date: 15 Oct 2009 10:05:32 -0000
From: pussikat steve

Glenn Bonne wrote:

>i would love to spend the rest of my life at a woman's feet.
>This is where i belong. Can anyone help me?

What about a job as a shoe salesman?

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Re: P: out of the closet Phoenicia NY
Date: Thu, 15 Oct 2009 22:04:13 +0100
From: "Christine" at u4ds.com

Hello,

pussikat steve wrote:

>What about a job as a shoe salesman?

I assume that was a joke. On a more serious note, my post
entitled "New York State and meeting kinky folk" might be a more
helpful suggestion.

http://u4ds.com/2009/10/new_york_state_and_meeting_kin.shtml

In my fantasy fiction "In The Bank Manager's Cupboard" which
members can read at:-

http://u4ds.com/2007/12/bank_managers_cupboard_1.shtml

a thirty year old shoe store worker gets "taken" by a very
dominant Karin. But real life rarely works that way.

In real life meeting real people socially, and/or meeting like
minded kinky folk at bdsm munches has a better chance of
success.

Also see:-

http://u4ds.com/meet_like_minded_kinky_people.shtml

sincerely,
Christine at u4ds.com

Renew or get your DOMestic password at
http://www.mschristine.com/domsub4.shtml#card

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