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Re: C: humiliating my slave-dog
Date: Sun, 10 Jan 2010 17:43:22 -0500
From: Danielle

Christine wrote:

>humiliating men. I like to have my doggy slave hump something
>without using his "front paws"

The coffee table is a nice thing to have our worthless doggies
hump. Here is another idea that my slave seemed to find rather
humiliating. Once I lubed the toilet, cuffed his hands behind
his back, turned out the lights, closed the door, made him hump
the toilet and bark until he came in the toilet. He was barking
for sometime in order to get enough friction! LOL

Danielle

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Re: C: humiliating my slave-dog
Date: Sun, 17 Jan 2010 02:17:40 -0000
From: "Christine" at u4ds.com

Hello,

Danielle wrote:

>I lubed the toilet, cuffed his hands behind his back, turned
>out the lights, closed the door, made him hump the toilet and
>bark until he came in the toilet

Wicked! I Love it.

As I've probably discussed here in the past, but have certainly
discussed in the FD software, one variation I use is to make
David hump the toilet while I watch. I tell him to lay on his
back, wrap his legs around the toilet, and hump his body upwards
against the cold ceramic base.

Sat on the toilet seat myself I'm in an ideal position to
verbally humiliate him as he attempts to get some satisfaction.
It's quite difficult for him to achieve a "spurt" humping
against something so cold! Especially in that awkward position.
So I might get bored and he'll go without.

But, if I want to ensure he does 'spurt' I only have to sit
fully dressed on the toilet seat and spread my legs either side
of him. Then he can be told to try and look up my skirt as he
does it.

Then I only have to say something like "You like looking up
women's skirts don't you wanker", and that always does the
trick.

sincerely,
Christine

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P: male sub, 33, looking for FemDom in Orange/LA area, CA
Date: Wed, 13 Jan 2010 00:13:13 -0800 (PST)
From: Alex T

Hello everyone, let me introduce myself:

Basics: 33 yrs old, professional, 190 lbs
Location: Orange County, CA
Qualifications: inexperienced sub wishing to serve a Mistress, Ma'am
Orientation: open-minded but inexperienced

I have been exploring BDSM for quite some time and I have made a
lot of contacts. Each day I am learning more about myself and
what I am interested in finding in the way of a Mistress or a
Ma'am.

The best way I can describe the dominant woman I am looking for
is a woman that can rule me with an iron fist in a velvet glove.
A strong voice demanding my obedience gets me.

What I want to find is a caring but stern woman - one who has a
clean, warm, friendly and inviting look. You are a regular PTA
and soccer mom in public, but in private you know how to
discipline me and push my limits.

I do not care if you have a great deal of experience - I am new
to submission and I probably won't even know the difference!

Some aspects of me you should know about me: I do enjoy doing
household chores for you. I am not into giving or taking pain.
Occasional slapping and a squeeze of my body parts are ok. I
would love to go shopping with mistress to adult stores or even
regular stores. Finally, regarding sex, I ejaculate prematurely
and have a small dick. So, not really capable of sex. However, I
derive all my pleasure from giving Oral. (especially on a beach
under moon lighting)

Outside I am shy and quiet and reserved. I am college educated
and professionally employed and I am looking for a woman of
equal or great accomplishment. Our relationship will be based on
mutual respect and class.

If you feel our personalities might be a match please, Ma'am,
do not hesitate to contact me.

Looking forward to hearing from you soon.

Sincerely,
Alex
akra_sd@yahoo.com
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Re: U: Aarkeybabble Chastity Heaven Review Marches On...
Date: 17 Jan 2010 20:20:45 -0000
From: Lady O

slaveboy - ChastityHeaven wrote:

>I just had the pleasure of reading a new update written by
>"Aarkey"

I find it a little disturbing that Aarkey reviewed the device
and ALSO designed their website... conflict of interest?

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Re: U: Aarkeybabble Chastity Heaven Review Marches On...
Date: Mon, 18 Jan 2010 15:20:09 -0000
From: "Christine" at u4ds.com

Hello,

Lady O wrote:

>conflict of interest?

My suggestion just posted a moment ago at:-

http://u4ds.com/2010/01/chastity_heaven_reviews_and_pr.shtml#c007346

is that it would be a good idea to read some experiences of
DOMestic readers right here on the the DOMestic blog. Perhaps
that would be helpful as well as interesting for all?

sincerely,
Christine at u4ds.com

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U: Chastity Heaven reviews and prices
Date: Fri, 15 Jan 2010 14:26:18 -0800 (PST)
From: slaveboy - chastityheaven

In "Re: C: chastity for small penis?" Danielle said in November:-

>"I went to the chastity heaven web site. Very impressive and
>reasonably priced. I will definitely consider that."

Hi to Danielle and everyone at DOMestic.

A host of problems have kept me from posting for about a month
or two, but things are returning to normal. I plan on posting
more here soon about the chastity lifestyle.

I don't know if Danielle has made a purchase from us yet, but in
case you, or any DOMestic reader, are still considering doing
so, I want to give all readers a "heads up" that our prices are
going up beginning Feb. 1st.

For those who may be interested, but unsure about us, we have
posted a couple of newer reviews at Chastity Heaven News,
"Aarkey" has done a follow-up review of the ChastityHeaven
'Cage' model at his blog, and there will be an ongoing
review/blog at a major chastity 'orgasm denial' website.

The site owner has ordered his "Cage" model and it's on its way
to him in Canada right now, and the blog has already been
started and can be accessed at "Chastity Heaven - A Real-Life
Trial"

I am inviting any DOMestic readers who are also customers of
ChastityHeaven to go to the above blog and write about your
experience dealing with us and wearing our devices.

We're getting excellent feedback from customers (and we have
customers who own devices from just about every competitor of
ours) who tell us we're the sleekest and most comfortable
devices out there. And, we're getting busier every week, as
business has been steadily building steam and orders are coming
in from around the world! We're just a few months old and we've
gone from selling less than one a week to more than one a day
because of word of mouth on the Internet! That says we're doing
something right.

Many thanks to Ms Christine and David for allowing us to post
here. Many of our customers have told us they first heard about
ChastityHeaven here on DOMestic.

If anyone has any questions concerning our devices, please
contact us via the "Contact Us" link on the website at:-

Chastity Heaven Chastity Scene & Friends

because I don't check my older address very often anymore.

There will be new models available in 2010 and new
customizations. Our security upgrade is also available but
hasn't been posted to the site as yet. If you've been putting
off your purchase, getting your order in before Feb 1st will
save you between $15.00 and $50.00, depending on the model you
choose.

We hope some DOMestic readers who are also customers will put
their 2 cents in at the "orgasmdenial blog" listed above. It
will be interesting to see how this all unfolds and what the
reviews will be like there. Please, any of our customers who are
reading this, come join in and help spread the word about
ChastityHeaven chastity devices!

THANKS!

chastity heaven

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Re: U: Chastity Heaven reviews and prices
From: "Christine" at u4ds.com
Date: Mon, 18 Jan 2010 15:08:03 -0000

Hello,

slaveboy - chastityheaven wrote:

>I am inviting any DOMestic readers who are also customers of
>ChastityHeaven to go to the above blog and write about your
>experience dealing with us and wearing our devices.

And I'm also inviting any DOMestic readers who are also
customers of ChastityHeaven to also post their experiences here
in response to this post. By all means post elsewhere, but if
you heard about the device on DOMestic, then it would seem fair
to share your experiences with other DOMestic readers.

>We hope some DOMestic readers who are also customers will put
>their 2 cents in at the "orgasmdenial blog"

I don't have the time to read other blogs myself, and I for one
would be happy to read of the experiences of DOMestic readers
with these or any such devices right here. I'm sure I'm not
alone in this.

sincerely,
Christine at u4ds.com

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S: Jim's Story - part eight
Date: Thu, 29 Oct 2009 15:15:42 -0400
From: randolphus

Jim's Story by randolphus
first part linked here

part eight

It is morning, only my fourth day of slavery, it seemed I've
been doing this forever. I made the coffee. Took coffee to
Sarah, helped her on the potty, emergency pedicure, dressed her,
applied foundation and eye liner, left to prepare breakfast.

Granola and yogurt, juice and coffee. Not much but I got a big
hug. For Kathleen, English muffins and poached eggs with bacon
and coffee.

I followed Kathleen to her bedroom and removed the robe and
slippers and gave her a massage, then a manicure and pedicure
then I bathed her and dressed her.

I went back to the kitchen and cleaned up. I vacuumed the whole
house, cleaned Miss Sarah's room and Miss Kathleen's room. It
was almost noon. I found Kathleen in the family room watching
TV. I curtsied and stood next to Miss Kathleen and even though I
had put the perfume on her, its scent was making me heady.

I stood and waited. I knew she liked to keep me waiting and I
just had to be patient. Finally she asked me to kneel down and
my head was put between her knees. She told me to go to her
bedroom and remove all my clothes and lie on her bed and wait
for her. I remembered to curtsy and went to her room.

Of course I waited and waited. Finally she came in, lifted her
dress, pulled down her panties and sat down on my face. Since I
was naked she could see I had a very hard erection which is
conclusive evidence of lusting. My nose was in her ass and my
tongue was trying to get into her pussy but the angle was wrong.
Breathing was difficult.

She finally got off of my face but had not had a climax. I said:
"Miss Kathleen I apologize for my ineffective performance."

"So you should, but you will suffer seriously for it, I will
accept your apology then," she said.

"Now let's see if you can do better on your knees?" she said.
Then she sat down in the chair.

I immediately kneeled down and got to work. She was really
demanding. She pulled on my hair and grabbed the back of my head
and pulled tighter, and came once but demanded coming twice
before releasing me.

"Put on the girdle," she said.

Again I felt this was so unfair, but after the beating, I did
what she ordered. I realized it was getting late, I curtsied.

"May I start dinner, Miss Kathleen?" I asked.

"Bring me a glass of sherry first," she said.

"Yes ma'am," I said. And curtsied and went to get the sherry.

I returned with a 3 oz glass of Sherry, curtsied and then knelt
in front of her to present the glass.

"Stay there," she said and took the glass from me.

It was okay with me because now I adored this woman and wanted
to be on my knees in front of her. She had a few sips. "Go
prepare dinner," she said.

Of course I said: "Yes Ma'am" and curtsied and went to the
kitchen.

I fixed dinner, it was more opening packages and cutting a few
vegetables than cooking.

Was I now in love with Sarah's mother? But it was Sarah who
effectively was avoiding me.

Sarah arrived home. We hugged and kissed, she more energetic
than usual. "How are you Jim?" she asked.

"Very good, thank you Miss Sarah," I said.

"I understand you had a hard day yesterday," Sarah said.

"I was beaten with a strap and left in the stocks for a long
time," I said.

"I hope it wasn't on my account," Sarah said.

I said: "It was partially because I told Miss Kathleen you said
I needed work on lusting as you had instructed me to."

"Did it work?" Sarah asked.

"Yes Miss Sarah, it did," I said.

"Show me," Sarah said.

I pulled down my girdle and Sarah touched the welts on my
backside.

"Do you think you learned your lesson?" she asked.

"Yes ma'am, I did," I said. I knew this was to humiliate me and
I knew I had to just suffer.

"What else were you beaten for?" she questioned.

"I lusted after Miss Kathleen," I said. I didn't like the way
this was going.

"Are you now cured of that also?" she said.

"Yes Ma'am," I said and wished we could end this. "Would Miss
Sarah like dinner?" I asked, trying to change the subject.

"That's very good. Did you make dinner?" she said.

"Yes ma'am, would you like me to serve it?" I said.

"I'm sorry that I don't have the time to discipline you myself.
Maybe after dinner I can add to your resolve to stop lusting,
would you like that?" she said.

"Yes Ma'am," I said, thinking that Sarah beating me would draw
us closer.

"Then let's have dinner right away so we will have time to do it
properly," she said.

I got Kathleen and served dinner, poured wine and stood at
attention while they ate and talked.

Sarah said: "Jim wants me to discipline him for lusting after
dinner."

Kathleen said: "I think it's hard to get enough of a good
thing."

I knew I was being baited but I knew better than to enter that
conversation.

Sarah said: "What do you recommend?"

Kathleen said: "I think he doesn't like the stocks and he hasn't
been caned so that would be effective, but I think a gag might
be in order, he was making a lot of noise from just the strap."

I shivered and refilled the wine glasses.

Sarah said: "Lets gag him now, if he is going to get punished,
he shouldn't get dinner. And besides I wouldn't want to beat him
with a full stomach," she giggled. "I mean his full stomach,"
Sarah said.

Kathleen said: "In my room on the dresser by the window in the
bottom drawer, go get it."

I curtsied twice and said: "Yes ma'am."

I found the device; it had a ball and straps extending out. I
was not real happy about any of this. I returned to the dining
room and curtsied twice and placed the ball-gag between the
ladies and asked if I might pour more wine.

Kathleen said: "Please fill our glasses. Then come here and I'll
put this on you."

"Yes ma'am," I said. I filled the glasses and then knelt down
between Sarah and Kathleen.

Kathleen said: "The ball goes in your mouth like this." She
placed it into my mouth which I opened wide for her. "Then the
strap goes behind your head and is fastened with this clasp. I
expect you to do this yourself when you're instructed to," she
continued.

Sarah said: "You may clear the table and clean the kitchen, I
think we don't have to tell you not to drink the wine." Sarah
giggled.

I did and it was a strange experience having a ball in one's
mouth. It only took about fifteen minutes. I wish it took longer
because I was very nervous about Sarah's mood and I don't like
canes and I'm quite sore already.

The ladies went into the family room and had turned on the TV.
Maybe they were going to watch TV, but I dutifully went in and
curtsied to both of them and tried to stand somewhat dignified,
but it's hard with a ball in your mouth and a ladies long-legged
panty girdle for clothing.

I waited for some time until Sarah said: "Go fasten yourself
into the stocks, we will be along, and pull down your pants."

I said: "Yes ma'am," curtsied and left.

I fastened my ankles and pulled the waist belt over myself but I
couldn't fasten it, then I put my head and hands into the
stocks, but the top bar was up, so I was able to get back up and
pull down the girdle, and back into the bottom cutouts and
waited.

I knew that part of their discipline was making me wait, and I
indeed suffered, I kept wondering if it would be very painful,
could I stand it, will they make me wait in the stocks like this
all evening.

Kathleen came in by herself, she lowered the top of the stocks
so I was imprisoned and took out of her dresser a long hooked
cane. She swished it in the air and kissed me on the head and
said: "Sarah seems to be in a funny state tonight."

I was left alone. After a long time both ladies came in. Sarah
said: "I think you've needed this for a long time. I hope I can
do justice to the task."

Sarah continued: "Mom said she had you thanking her for the
strap and counting the strokes, it's too bad you're gagged;
maybe next time."

Next I felt more pain that I had in my life. It felt like a
knife cutting into me. I wriggled and groaned and then there was
another monstrous stroke. I think there were ten or twelve. No
one said anything, just stroke after stroke. It's a good thing I
couldn't break free because I would have. When I didn't get any
strokes for a while I assumed it was over. Then the lights went
out and the door was closed. I just hung there and sobbed with a
ball in my mouth.

After what was at least thirty or forty minutes, the door
opened, and I could tell it was Kathleen who came over and
removed the gag. She left with no word or gesture and closed the
door.

Another thirty or forty minutes passed and Sarah released me
from the stocks and took my limp penis in her hand and led me
into the family room, while I hopped and struggled to keep up,
with the girdle around my ankles.

Then I was guided down onto my knees in the family room and my
face was in Sarah's pussy. I licked and licked for what went on
for a very long time before my head was released.

Then Sarah raised her legs into the air and said: "I want your
tongue in my ass." And again my face was buried, and again I had
to struggle to breathe and I felt her hands around my head and
then she grabbed my ears and started pulling. I suffered more
pain from this woman on this night than in our entire marriage.
Finally she let go, and she told me to pull up the girdle.

Then Sarah applied the now familiar handcuffs and told me to go
to the top of the stairs and face the wall and not move until
she came up.

I had to say: "Yes ma'am," and I curtsied twice and went
upstairs.

I had the feeling that these ladies were competing with each
other, who could discipline me more. Certainly all the suffering
today was unwarranted by my behaviour. And Sarah tricked me into
asking to be beaten; and then so hard.

I tried to stand as still as I could but I had taken a very
severe beating and I was feeling somewhat weak.

Finally I could feel Sarah coming up the steps. She was behind
me, she stopped. Then she walked into her (our) bedroom. She
took off her dress and dropped it on the floor and came and
unlocked my handcuffs and said: "You may follow me."

I did and when we got into the bedroom she said: "Pick up the
dress and hang it in the closet."

I glanced at her and she was in her undies. I would have lusted
but I wasn't in the mood anymore. I guessed it was the beatings,
maybe it worked. After I hung up the dress, Sarah said: "Now I
don't know what to do with you. Would you like to sleep with
me?"

"Yes please, Miss Sarah," I said.

She pulled the sheet and blanket down and we got onto the bed.

She said, "Start kissing my feet and work up, I'll tell you when
to stop."

I started with her toes but I really wasn't in the mood, but I
wasn't going to let an opportunity like this go by. I started
getting into it as I was kissing the backs of her knees and she
started touching me, I was kissing her ass and she started
running her hands in my hair, then I moved around to her pussy
and kissed all around and tried to kiss just inside, when she
told me to stop and to lie on my back.

Then she climbed on top so her pussy was over my mouth and she
had my now erect penis in her mouth. I had to think about the
stock market to keep from coming right away, but I managed to
hold on until she came. She sort of convulsed, tightening her
thighs (which squeezed my head) and swallowing motions with her
mouth and throat, and all that set me off.

I was amazed. This wild woman was my wife. I got Kleenex and
handed it to Sarah and lay down next to her and cuddled. I
kissed her head, and eyes, and face, and neck and lips,
especially the lips, softly and hard. I wanted to talk about us
but we just lay silently with our thoughts.

I guess I dozed off. But I was awakened because there was a
pussy on my face. Sarah wanted it again. I got to work. When she
was done she cuddled back and I kissed until she fell asleep.

What a day. I was beaten so hard I don't know if I will be able
to walk tomorrow, and my wife who viciously beat me gave me the
wildest sex of our marriage. I think Sarah has been liberated in
some way. I guess I was the oppressor, even though it wasn't
intentional. Now she is my oppressor, my last thought before
falling asleep was that I liked it.

( Part 9 on the DOMestic blog this evening )

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