DOMestic Bdsm and Female Domination

Hello,

kevin wrote:

>I have been reading your blog for many years, and what a great
>blog it is.

Thank you, although it's become very quiet lately. A lot of
twittering and not as much in depth communication nowadays I
think.

>I am now in a relationship where my partner is Dom (in fact i
>am currently in a chastity device )

That's what I like to hear. Hope it's working - and perhaps you
could tell everyone about your experiences with the "device" on
the blog sometime? (anonymously if you like)

>and i have shown her your website. We are both interested in
>your software but i have a few questions :- 1) Will it help
>her as she is new to this lifestyle?

It was primarily designed for new-comers to Fem-Dom not for old
hands.

I imagined when we designed it that experienced dominants would
just say - "tell me something I don't know" - but I was
pleasantly surprised at how many experienced doms have told me
they enjoy "refreshing" their ideas and techniques with regular
use of the software.

I've even found myself using it, browsing idly, and then being
surprised at the things I came across that I had quite forgotten
I'd programmed in. (but I've not let David know how often I've
used it - but he'll know when he reads this)

>2) i am not at all being rude but is it relevant today?

Yes. I'd say more than 99% relevant.

>you say you wrote it a long time ago.

Male fem-dom fantasies seem to be the same to me now as they
were when I first met David. Indeed many are the same now as
they were hundreds of years before I was born.

I can't think of anything that has significantly changed in male
or female sexuality or the techniques a woman would use to
control men since we developed the software.

The world is much the same now as it was when I started. TV -
video, the internet, all existed when we wrote and then updated
the software to version 3.

The only major change I can think of is the use of text
messaging in communication between partners. (that is not
discussed at all in the software - but ideas on telephone
communication could be easily adapted).

Canes, riding crops, whips, paddles, et cetera are the same now
as they were hundreds of years ago. Bondage techniques are
equally unchanged.

There are of course some new brands of equipment available, but
the software focuses on styles and techniques for behaviour
between couples. It's not really got much detail about the
equipment.

If we spend any time at all on using equipment it is usually in
generalities rather than spending much time on the specific
details of any brand of equipment.

>3) can it be run on her phone as well as her pc?

I doubt it can be done easily with many older phones. Newer ones
with web browsers perhaps. I can't say for sure. Not least
because phones vary so much and you didn't say what phone she is
using. It's most unlikely to be the same as mine. Sorry.

If her phone can save, store and open web pages then it could
work providing you can bluetooth (or similar) all the content
across to the phone.

I personally find phone screens to be too small to be useful for
anything so I have not tried using the software on my phone
anyway.

If I were you I'd purchase for the pc and experiment with other
devices. If it works see it as a bonus. (please let me and/or
the blog know how you get on)

>4) can it help her with punishments.

Yes of course punishment is covered in the context of suggesting
why, when and how.

But not if you mean random punishment generators offering
specific punishment recommendations - number of strokes etc.
That is not something we bothered with as there were many random
punishment generators available when we wrote the software. We
thought them all rather a waste of time.

Tossing a coin or rolling a dice has a similar effect. (as
indeed nowadays would a similar dice based phone app)

We chose instead to go in direction of teaching the whole
package.

>Hope these questions are ok.

Yes of course. And if you care to drop me a line granting
permission I'd like to include the discussion above on the blog
at some point? Obviously I would not use the discussion unless
you are completely happy with the idea.

>I look forward to reading your reply and hopefully purchasing
>the software for my goddess.

I'm certain it will give you both many years of pleasure.
Hopefully a lifetime.

sincerely,
Christine

The Fem Dom Training Software.
Advises on how best to train your husband/lover.
http://www.mschristine.com/program.shtml

Christine,

Thank you for such a prompt reply.

I agree the blog has really been quiet the last couple of years
which is such a shame.

The device is a cb3000 and I have been locked for 14 days with
lots of tease and denial.

Thank you for the answers I will discuss with my goddess and
hopefully will buy the software soon.

I am more than happy for you to use this on the blog as long as
it is "anonymised"

Thanks again

kevin

Christine and david,

just wanted to say thanks again for your email.

i bought the software for my goddess, and all i know is that i
am still locked up, massaging her feet and she is giggling to
herself as she looks at it.

regards

kevin