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Date: Fri, 25 Feb 2022 00:44:21 -0000
From: "Christine" at u4ds.com

It's been a while since anyone posted here on DOMestic. I hope this update on how David and I have been spending our days stimulates some conversation.

I recently noticed how 'inexpensive' chastity cages for men are nowadays, just as as an example these two I saw on Amazon are now at the 'toys' level of pricing.

Amazon chastity cages for men

At those prices I was happy to buy a couple of 'cheap' chastity cages for shorter term play, rather than try for long term chastity with possibly more expensive or complicated devices. I'll explain...

Continue reading "Chastity in the Third Age - using my favourite devices" »

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From: "toy boy chastity"
Date: Tue, 02 Oct 2018 16:47:04

I'd like to find a chastity belt that can really stop me
masturbating. I've tried straps and things from sex shops, but
they just make me want sex even more.

Continue reading "Chastity Belt Advice" »

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From: Will
Date: Mon, 23 May 2016 01:27:45 -0400 (EDT)

So my wife and I recently stumbled on to this post...

We are a pretty normal couple with healthy sexual appetite.
I was reading where a guy had to have a lock removed from
his testicles and mentioned it in passing to my wife.

Continue reading "my wife padlocked my balls" »

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Date: 1 Apr 2013 07:12:08 -0000
From: Sissy Slut, RitaB

I just came across a new chastity cage designed for all day use.
It's made of softer more pliable silicone and it's fully water-
proof. No hard plastic! Looks like you could easily shower in it
too.

It appears fairly comfy for all day use and it even looks like
it's very light-weight.

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Date: 20 Oct 2010 15:22:11 -0000
From: surferslave

I am interested in the "penis corset" mentioned in Jim's Story.
Is that a commercially available item? Where is it available?

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Date: Wed, 24 Mar 2010 11:46:15 -0700
From: "Jim G"

Hello Ms Christine,

First, thank you for your program. My lovely, darling wife and I
have started a DOM/s relationship and we are both enjoying it
very much.

Many have asked about a chastity device that will keep your sub
secure.

Continue reading "Chastity device CB-6000 and FD program" »

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Date: Tue, 23 Mar 2010 12:53:22 -0700
From: tony

Dear Ms Christine, i am a little unsure how to post anonymously
but would like to post a review of the two chastity cages that i
have purchased from Chastity Heaven. Could you post my review or
tell me how to do it so that I remain anonymous?

Continue reading "Chastity Heaven cages" »

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From: Robert Jones
Date: Thu, 18 Mar 2010 16:44:25 -0500

I knew from the beginning that Mistress was collaring me as a
cuckold. Mistress was upfront and honest. The chastity started
immediately. Chastity was a pre-requisite to earning Mistress's
Collar.

Continue reading "The Cuckoldress Videos" »

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Date: Fri, 15 Jan 2010 14:26:18 -0800 (PST)
From: slaveboy - chastityheaven

In Re: C: chastity for small penis? Danielle said in November:-

>"I went to the chastity heaven web site. Very impressive and
>reasonably priced. I will definitely consider that."

Hi to Danielle and everyone at DOMestic.

A host of problems have kept me from posting for about a month
or two, but things are returning to normal. I plan on posting
more here soon about the chastity lifestyle.

I don't know if Danielle has made a purchase from us yet, but in
case you, or any DOMestic reader, are still considering doing
so, I want to give all readers a "heads up" that our prices are
going up beginning Feb. 1st.

Continue reading "Chastity Heaven reviews and prices" »

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Date: Mon, 16 Nov 2009 17:11:31 -0800 (PST)
From: slaveboy - ChastityHeaven

...with wit and "wisdomme", let's call it "frustration humor"
caused by our device :-)

I just had the pleasure of reading a new update written by
"Aarkey" at Aarkeybabble.blogspot.com and I think every reader
can appreciate the humor and wit with which "Aarkey" deals with
his frustration at wearing a truly secure device.

Continue reading "Aarkeybabble Chastity Heaven Review Marches On..." »

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Date: 30 Oct 2009 00:21:45 -0000
From: slaveboy

In "Chastity Question, Is "Milking" Just The Myth That I Think
It Is" I wrote:

>Ever experience "tingling" throughout your whole body along
>with sexual or sensual thoughts?

David replied:

>This always happens to me when I'm subjected to prolonged
>arousal without ejaculation being permitted. It's the best and
>probably the only 'buzz' I get without chemicals, and as I only
>use tobacco and alcohol, and do not want to seek out any other
>chemical "buzz" I highly recommend the buzz or high from
>prolonged "prickteasing"

David, I have been meaning to reply to this since I read it. I'm
so glad to hear this. I have been on cloud nine a lot recently
and I almost feel as if I'm floating at times. I can be out
grocery shopping and see an attractive woman, or I can be home
with my wife and I get such a strong "high" that it really feels
like a drug.

Continue reading "Chastity cloud nine - Goddess addiction" »

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Date: Fri, 16 Oct 2009 20:33:03 -0400
From: Danielle

I have tried the CB 3000 on my slave however his penis is so
small that it won't stay locked on. Does anyone know if the CB
6000 will work any better on really small penises, i.e., one
half inch when flaccid.

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Date: Tue, 8 Sep 2009 07:43:36 -0700 (PDT)
From: slaveboy

We've been into chastity for about nine years now, but not the
continuous chastity that I am now "enrolled" in. I've never
considered the act of "milking" to be necessary because it
always seems that cum finds its way out on it's own via wet
dreams, spontaneous orgasms etc. I've been doing some reading
and I've read that eventually the build-up of cum overflows into
the bladder and gets released during urination.

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Date: Tue, 28 Jul 2009 13:09:57 -0700 (PDT)
From: slaveboy

As I recently posted, I have found a wonderfully designed and
extremely comfortable chastity device, far superior to any of
the plastic cages and probably the most comfortable cage in the
world for a number of reasons. I've received a number of
inquiries so I wanted to post this asap.

The cage I have on now is handmade from stainless steel. To be as comfortable as possible, a chastity device must be sized in a very specific way. Some experimenting has found that if it is too small and restrictive, it will be painful. But, strangely, if it permits the penis to get erect, it will also be painful. That is because the testicles get pulled and squeezed at the back ring from the forward force of the erection. (click pictures to enlarge)

Continue reading "The Best Chastity Device and the Reasons Why" »

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Date: Tue, 21 Jul 2009 14:06:29 -0700 (PDT)
From: slaveboy

Hi All,

It's been quite some time since I have posted here such that
maybe no one remembers me. My Wife/Mistress and I have enjoyed
almost ten years of lifestyle D/s. I bought her our first
chastity device for our wedding and we took D/s vows, after the
actual wedding, in private.

Chastity has long had a deep hold on me, but after trying so
many different devices my Mistress settled on her favorite as
the Club Fem mcd because she liked the spikes and the pain I had
to endure with every arousal.

She enjoys using me for oral and she has redefined what "sex" is
for me.

Continue reading "Chastity, foot worship and the feeling of being gelded" »

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Date: Sun, 7 Jun 2009 10:57:58 -0700 (PDT)
From: Tom Jones

To the group:

Does anyone have any experience with the "Birdlocked" chastity
device?

Saw a YouTube video of it, and it looks quite intriguing.

Here is the link:

Continue reading "Birdlocked male chastity belt in silicone" »

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From: Ashley
Date: Sat, 6 Jun 2009 20:38:47 EDT

my name is Ashley... married four years and getting into this
lifestyle... and of course some problems...

do you have any suggestions on making my sub hubby stay nude at
home?

he is quite shy... and slowly learning... i know he needs to be
dominated.. but sometimes it's hard to get him to comply...

Continue reading "keeping sub hubby nude - chastity a start?" »

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Date: Mon, 29 Dec 2008 16:06:46 -0000
From: "j" - boyj

Hi all,

My wife has decided that i am going to quit smoking. So i have
made an excel spread sheet to help us along.. one stroke per
smoke first week, next week 2, and so on with the differences at
x2 (ie if i have 10 one day and 12 the next the difference would
multiply) i don't know if i can attach it in here but feel free
to ask me for it and i'll try to keep all posted as to the
progress.

Continue reading "quitting smoking and home made chastity belt" »

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posted by: Super A
posted on: Sat, 06 Sep 2008 13:48:00 -0500

What is Male Chastity?

Male chastity when practiced as a lifestyle can be an all
encompassing component of a relationship, not just a sexual
game. Chastity and D/s lifestyles tap in and blend the mind,
body and emotions of the Dominant and submissive. Chastity is an
intellectual, physical, emotional and sexual experience. It's an
extension of control that a male submissive can truly relate to.
Control becomes real in a very physical sense and is enhanced by
the intellectual response to this control of the male's sexual
desire.

Continue reading "Male Chastity" »

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posted by: MissE
posted on: Sun, 03 Aug 2008 16:46:36 +0200

Dear Domestic readers and Ms Christine,

Recently my boy and I purchased a Sentinel Chastity belt.
Wonderful it looks. It has a metal casing and ring. We were
really looking forward to moving our chastity play up to the
next level.

However we have now decided to cut that journey short at least
with this CB as he is having major difficulties with it. As long
as he sits still it is ok but as soon as he moves he finds
pieces of skin being grabbed by the CB and or, as he describes
it, the metal poking like needles into his penis head.

Continue reading "Sentinel Chastity belt" »

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posted by: MissE
posted on: 1 Nov 2007 05:53:09 -0000

My sub has a hair fetish and is a cross dresser. As you know we
are not 24/7 but we do have some rules. This is my favourite:-

When any other woman but me works on his make up (hairdresser or
make up artist friend of ours) he has to wear a chastity belt to
ensure that he knows who is in control. It has meant that going
to the hairdresser has become much more intense and rewarding.

Of course I decide what the hairdresser is going to do. They
don't even ask him any more, and it's me who books :-)

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posted by: surfer slave
posted on: Mon, 15 Oct 2007 12:15:22 -0700 (PDT)

My Mistress and I have been experimenting with chastity and I
wanted to share my thoughts and experiences. Much has been said
here and elsewhere about the "effectiveness" of the CB series
such as the CB3000. The issue that has been put forth is that if
you can pull back out of it, it is not effective.

I have a different perspective.

Continue reading "thoughts on chastity effectiveness" »

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posted by: "John Doh" j0hnnyd0h at yahoo
posted on: Thu, 24 May 2007 08:54:47 -0700 (PDT)

Greetings All,

Re: Male Chastity Devices

While we're on this topic.... I'd love to hear opinions on a
couple of sub-topics (accidental pun, really!). I know some of
this has been touched on in the archives, but I'm hoping for
fresh clarity (and to spark more conversation, it's been quiet
here lately).

First:-

My wife has recently (we're both newbies here) discovered that
she enjoys playing tease/denial games. And I'm at that delicate
point of being really excited that she's found a kink she
enjoys, but a little nervous of what the future holds... ;-)

Continue reading "Chastity-tease-denial-milking" »

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