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Date: Fri, 25 Feb 2022 00:44:21 -0000
From: "Christine" at u4ds.com

It's been a while since anyone posted here on DOMestic. I hope this update on how David and I have been spending our days stimulates some conversation.

I recently noticed how 'inexpensive' chastity cages for men are nowadays, just as as an example these two I saw on Amazon are now at the 'toys' level of pricing.

Amazon chastity cages for men

At those prices I was happy to buy a couple of 'cheap' chastity cages for shorter term play, rather than try for long term chastity with possibly more expensive or complicated devices. I'll explain...

Continue reading "Chastity in the Third Age - using my favourite devices" »

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From: "toy boy chastity"
Date: Tue, 02 Oct 2018 16:47:04

I'd like to find a chastity belt that can really stop me
masturbating. I've tried straps and things from sex shops, but
they just make me want sex even more.

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From: "Helen Ward"
Date: Fri, 04 May 2018 11:55:26 +0100

Ladies and "gentles",

I saw last year in the news here in the UK that men should
masturbate more if they want to reduce their risk of cancer.

I wonder, how many Mistresses saw that item in the news, and did
any change your policy on how often you allow your submissive
"gentle"-man to "spurt" as Christine calls it?

I've relented and let my slaveboy out of his chastity belt once
nearly every day for a supervised wank, which gets his average
up above the recommended 21 times a month.

Even though I lock him up again straight after the "nasty
business" is over with, the problem is that I find his attitude
seems more surly than it used to be when I kept him frustrated
and barely let him have relief once or twice a month.

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Date: Fri, 8 Jun 2012 17:56:55 +0100 (BST)
From: Paul Carter

I am a 49 year old male based in the uk. I have become
fascinated by the prospect of being denied but sometimes
allowed, hopefully, release. I gather this is a common fantasy.

Continue reading "Denial the fantasy and the reality" »

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Date: Tue, 21 Jul 2009 14:06:29 -0700 (PDT)
From: slaveboy

Hi All,

It's been quite some time since I have posted here such that
maybe no one remembers me. My Wife/Mistress and I have enjoyed
almost ten years of lifestyle D/s. I bought her our first
chastity device for our wedding and we took D/s vows, after the
actual wedding, in private.

Chastity has long had a deep hold on me, but after trying so
many different devices my Mistress settled on her favorite as
the Club Fem mcd because she liked the spikes and the pain I had
to endure with every arousal.

She enjoys using me for oral and she has redefined what "sex" is
for me.

Continue reading "Chastity, foot worship and the feeling of being gelded" »

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posted by: "Christine" at MsChristine.com
posted on: Sun, 05 Aug 2007 00:07:09 +0000

Hello,

Once you have controlled his masturbation, so that your subby
hubby is only wanking how and when you want him to, you may find
he's ready for "the coup de grâce".

The coup de grâce (wikipedia) is not for every submissive. But I can
say that I've found it works wonders for my subby's attitude
over the years.

Continue reading "the coup de grâce" »

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posted by: "Christine" at Ms-Christine.com
posted on: Thu, 19 Jul 2007 02:51:18 +0000

Hello,

Several readers have already suggested ways in which Helen can
supervise and make her husband's masturbating painful at...

http://u4ds.us/2007/07/spiked_gloves_supervised_wanki.shtml

so I'll widen the topic out and hope to start a conversation on
ways to control how husbands masturbate even when you are not
around to supervise personally.

Continue reading "controlling how he masturbates" »

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