DOMestic Bdsm and Female Domination

Date: Fri, 25 Feb 2022 00:44:21 -0000
From: "Christine" at u4ds.com

It's been a while since anyone posted here on DOMestic. I hope this update on how David and I have been spending our days stimulates some conversation.

I recently noticed how 'inexpensive' chastity cages for men are nowadays, just as as an example these two I saw on Amazon are now at the 'toys' level of pricing.

Amazon chastity cages for men

At those prices I was happy to buy a couple of 'cheap' chastity cages for shorter term play, rather than try for long term chastity with possibly more expensive or complicated devices. I'll explain...

Continue reading "Chastity in the Third Age - using my favourite devices" »

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From: "toy boy chastity"
Date: Tue, 02 Oct 2018 16:47:04

I'd like to find a chastity belt that can really stop me
masturbating. I've tried straps and things from sex shops, but
they just make me want sex even more.

Continue reading "Chastity Belt Advice" »

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From: "Christine" at u4ds.com
Date: Wed, 02 Jul 2014 17:22:29 +0100

Hello,

In "Shock collar fixing and locking" jay asked for:-

>"advice or images that would help me find a better way to fix
>the collar on my testicles"

Here is an image shot today with my smartphone of the FS700A
collar I purchased.

It is being held in David's hand, just as it came out of the box
and still in much the same condition that it arrived with it's
red canvas strap not showing much signs of wear.

Continue reading "Locking a shock collar in place" »

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Date: 1 Apr 2013 07:12:08 -0000
From: Sissy Slut, RitaB

I just came across a new chastity cage designed for all day use.
It's made of softer more pliable silicone and it's fully water-
proof. No hard plastic! Looks like you could easily shower in it
too.

It appears fairly comfy for all day use and it even looks like
it's very light-weight.

Continue reading "Dickcage" »

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Date: 20 Oct 2010 15:22:11 -0000
From: surferslave

I am interested in the "penis corset" mentioned in Jim's Story.
Is that a commercially available item? Where is it available?

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Date: Wed, 24 Mar 2010 11:46:15 -0700
From: "Jim G"

Hello Ms Christine,

First, thank you for your program. My lovely, darling wife and I
have started a DOM/s relationship and we are both enjoying it
very much.

Many have asked about a chastity device that will keep your sub
secure.

Continue reading "Chastity device CB-6000 and FD program" »

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Date: Tue, 23 Mar 2010 12:53:22 -0700
From: tony

Dear Ms Christine, i am a little unsure how to post anonymously
but would like to post a review of the two chastity cages that i
have purchased from Chastity Heaven. Could you post my review or
tell me how to do it so that I remain anonymous?

Continue reading "Chastity Heaven cages" »

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Date: Fri, 15 Jan 2010 14:26:18 -0800 (PST)
From: slaveboy - chastityheaven

In Re: C: chastity for small penis? Danielle said in November:-

>"I went to the chastity heaven web site. Very impressive and
>reasonably priced. I will definitely consider that."

Hi to Danielle and everyone at DOMestic.

A host of problems have kept me from posting for about a month
or two, but things are returning to normal. I plan on posting
more here soon about the chastity lifestyle.

I don't know if Danielle has made a purchase from us yet, but in
case you, or any DOMestic reader, are still considering doing
so, I want to give all readers a "heads up" that our prices are
going up beginning Feb. 1st.

Continue reading "Chastity Heaven reviews and prices" »

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Date: Thu, 6 Aug 2009 07:48:30 -0700 (PDT)
From: slaveboy

Hi,

Since I'm getting some interest on the new chastity devices I've written about, I thought I would allow the readers to see more on our website chastityheaven (which is currently under construction).

During this transitional period, you can still go there and see more pics and read more about all the effort that has gone into coming up with the best designed custom made and custom sized devices. (click pics to enlarge)

Continue reading "Custom Made Chastity Devices - Chastity Heaven" »

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Date: Tue, 28 Jul 2009 13:09:57 -0700 (PDT)
From: slaveboy

As I recently posted, I have found a wonderfully designed and
extremely comfortable chastity device, far superior to any of
the plastic cages and probably the most comfortable cage in the
world for a number of reasons. I've received a number of
inquiries so I wanted to post this asap.

The cage I have on now is handmade from stainless steel. To be as comfortable as possible, a chastity device must be sized in a very specific way. Some experimenting has found that if it is too small and restrictive, it will be painful. But, strangely, if it permits the penis to get erect, it will also be painful. That is because the testicles get pulled and squeezed at the back ring from the forward force of the erection. (click pictures to enlarge)

Continue reading "The Best Chastity Device and the Reasons Why" »

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Date: Tue, 21 Jul 2009 14:06:29 -0700 (PDT)
From: slaveboy

Hi All,

It's been quite some time since I have posted here such that
maybe no one remembers me. My Wife/Mistress and I have enjoyed
almost ten years of lifestyle D/s. I bought her our first
chastity device for our wedding and we took D/s vows, after the
actual wedding, in private.

Chastity has long had a deep hold on me, but after trying so
many different devices my Mistress settled on her favorite as
the Club Fem mcd because she liked the spikes and the pain I had
to endure with every arousal.

She enjoys using me for oral and she has redefined what "sex" is
for me.

Continue reading "Chastity, foot worship and the feeling of being gelded" »

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Date: Wed, 17 Jun 2009 11:20:10 -0000
From: "MaitresseX"

I have been a member of the DOMestic Yahoo Group for many years.
I have found this list very helpful to me personally/my
relationship. Kudos to Ms. Christine and David.

I have been part of the "scene" for many years as well though
that was not satisfying to me. It is fun to go to fetish/bdsm
parties but it was not real and just role-play at that moment in
time. I have a 24/7 Ds relationship for five and a half years
and I also have slaves/submissives. The 24/7 relationship has
had it ups and downs and outside/real life challenges but I can
safely say that we are now on the right and positive path. Over
the years dominating my slave was very intense in the beginning
and then mixed until now. I am now combining the intensity with
consistent "sessions".

Continue reading "Real life Fem Dom" »

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Date: Sun, 7 Jun 2009 10:57:58 -0700 (PDT)
From: Tom Jones

To the group:

Does anyone have any experience with the "Birdlocked" chastity
device?

Saw a YouTube video of it, and it looks quite intriguing.

Here is the link:

Continue reading "Birdlocked male chastity belt in silicone" »

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Date: Mon, 29 Dec 2008 16:06:46 -0000
From: "j" - boyj

Hi all,

My wife has decided that i am going to quit smoking. So i have
made an excel spread sheet to help us along.. one stroke per
smoke first week, next week 2, and so on with the differences at
x2 (ie if i have 10 one day and 12 the next the difference would
multiply) i don't know if i can attach it in here but feel free
to ask me for it and i'll try to keep all posted as to the
progress.

Continue reading "quitting smoking and home made chastity belt" »

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posted by: MissE
posted on: Sun, 03 Aug 2008 16:46:36 +0200

Dear Domestic readers and Ms Christine,

Recently my boy and I purchased a Sentinel Chastity belt.
Wonderful it looks. It has a metal casing and ring. We were
really looking forward to moving our chastity play up to the
next level.

However we have now decided to cut that journey short at least
with this CB as he is having major difficulties with it. As long
as he sits still it is ok but as soon as he moves he finds
pieces of skin being grabbed by the CB and or, as he describes
it, the metal poking like needles into his penis head.

Continue reading "Sentinel Chastity belt" »

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posted by: "Christine" at u4ds.com / MsChristine.com
posted on: Sun, 06 Jul 2008 05:27:10 +0000

Hello,

In "keeping interest in sex" emily wrote:

>what is and where does one get the spikey penis corset?

I've said this many times over the years, but perhaps you were
not around at the time.

My spiky penis corset is home made, and instructions for making
your own are on the member's web site (link below) and can be
found via the home made devices section of the blog. Scan down
the right hand side menu to "Equipment - Toys / Home Made".

Sharp-Spiked Penis Corset with pictures

Continue reading "spiked penis corsets and devices" »

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posted by: brian
posted on: 12 May 2008 22:27:35 -0000

Hello

My wife has recently intensified our FemDom marriage and I am
being locked in chastity. We are currently using the CB 2000 and
I find it a tad uncomfortable. I am less than 5 inches hard, so
it is not a size issue ;).

I am looking at the CB-3000 and CB-6000. Can anyone recommend
which one is better?

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posted by: "Peter Damiani"
posted on: Sat, 28 Jul 2007 10:46:18 -0400

i was wondering if anyone (male or female) has any experience
with a glans ring/cum-stopper. My Wife/Mistress recently ordered
one from Extreme Restraints.

i only saw it after She placed the order so i had no say... but
She felt it is something that could be worn even outside.

Thank You

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posted by: "slaveponyrider" slaveponyrider@yahoo.com
posted on: Wed, 9 May 2007 17:32:09 -0700 (PDT)

Does anyone in the group have any real life experience with male
chastity devices?

We are looking at either the CB-3000 or The "Curve". i like the
Curve because of it's curved shape also the design seems like it
would be easier hygienically speaking. The CB-3000 is neat
looking with it's molded head but i wonder how well i can clean
down there with it on.

Continue reading "Male Chastity Devices" »

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posted by: "tom barronn" bakio98 at hotmail
posted on: Thu, 08 Mar 2007 20:56:06 +0000

My disclaimer is that I refuse to be responsible for any misery
caused by this device.

Enjoy.....?

Tom

Continue reading "Home made KTB (a Tormenting device) " »

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posted by: "Wayne" wane713 at yahoo
posted on: Sun, 04 Mar 2007 21:53:55 -0000

In The Torment. (part five), tom barronn wrote:

>I took some pics of the devices that I both made and purchased.
>There is also some of the diabolical KTB that I made, -snip-
>and I will gladly share the instructions with anyone foolish
>enough to ask for them.

Continue reading "Instructions for TCDs (Chastity devices)" »

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posted by: "supera_sa" supera at iaxs net
posted on: Fri, 16 Feb 2007 23:17:36 -0000

Although it claims to be a swimsuit, it could be a chastity
device, or another fun toy for your mistress to play with.

http://www.koalaswim.com/i-Hard_as_Steel.htm

(click on the images to get a closer look)

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posted by: "J. Smyth" simm52 at hotmail dot com
posted on: Tue, 06 Feb 2007 20:24:56 -0500

Hi All;

My SO/Mistress and I want to put a locking ring on me while I
travel for business, so we are looking for something that is
clean and easy to remove myself in an emergency. I figure
something that locks with a plastic tag that can be signed by
her or pre-numbered.

Continue reading "Locking Rings?" »

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posted by: Mistress Annie
posted on: 24 Nov 2006 13:49:15 -0000

I'm in my lunch break at the office and just had to write to say
thanks to David and Christine.

I'm a cock control freak, I'm not into piercing but I just loved
David's post on the subject when I read it just now. He gives
such good research! (giggle) Is he as good at 'giving face'?

I send my boy off to work most days in either a KTB or a spiky
penis corset. Both thanks to you two and Jaguar etc! We (my
subby hubby) made a KTB not long after slave mike and Jaguar
posted the instructions to the web site back in the early days.
We've made several versions since that time, and also made the
spiky corset with the thumb tacks a few times. (well they get
mucky after a while!)

Continue reading "sissy boy cock controlled by Mistress" »

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posted on: Sat, 4 Feb 2006 21:10:38 -0800 (PST)
posted by: esnart liwonde (eliwonde (at> yahoo

Hi,

I have a question about the chastity devices. I would like to
get one to use with my husband.

I was having a look at the pictures and I found the CB2000
interesting. But I didn't see very clearly how the balls pass
through the first ring. Or maybe it has a system to open to
enter the balls and close it?

Continue reading "chastity devices (CB2000)" »

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