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Date: Fri, 25 Feb 2022 00:44:21 -0000
From: "Christine" at u4ds.com

It's been a while since anyone posted here on DOMestic. I hope this update on how David and I have been spending our days stimulates some conversation.

I recently noticed how 'inexpensive' chastity cages for men are nowadays, just as as an example these two I saw on Amazon are now at the 'toys' level of pricing.

Amazon chastity cages for men

At those prices I was happy to buy a couple of 'cheap' chastity cages for shorter term play, rather than try for long term chastity with possibly more expensive or complicated devices. I'll explain...

Continue reading "Chastity in the Third Age - using my favourite devices" »

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From: Will
Date: Mon, 23 May 2016 01:27:45 -0400 (EDT)

So my wife and I recently stumbled on to this post...

We are a pretty normal couple with healthy sexual appetite.
I was reading where a guy had to have a lock removed from
his testicles and mentioned it in passing to my wife.

Continue reading "my wife padlocked my balls" »

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Date: 19 Jul 2010 05:43:11 -0000
From: Don

In "keeping sub hubby nude - chastity a start?" Ashley wrote:

>"do you have any suggestions on making my sub hubby stay nude
>at home?"

Handcuffs and leg irons are the favorite of my wife along with a
chastity tube. They go on around 7pm and stay on till morning.
She puts the keys in a timer lockbox so not even she can unlock
them till the appointed time. This has worked for the last 15
years.

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Date: Wed, 24 Mar 2010 11:46:15 -0700
From: "Jim G"

Hello Ms Christine,

First, thank you for your program. My lovely, darling wife and I
have started a DOM/s relationship and we are both enjoying it
very much.

Many have asked about a chastity device that will keep your sub
secure.

Continue reading "Chastity device CB-6000 and FD program" »

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Date: Tue, 23 Mar 2010 12:53:22 -0700
From: tony

Dear Ms Christine, i am a little unsure how to post anonymously
but would like to post a review of the two chastity cages that i
have purchased from Chastity Heaven. Could you post my review or
tell me how to do it so that I remain anonymous?

Continue reading "Chastity Heaven cages" »

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Date: Fri, 15 Jan 2010 14:26:18 -0800 (PST)
From: slaveboy - chastityheaven

In Re: C: chastity for small penis? Danielle said in November:-

>"I went to the chastity heaven web site. Very impressive and
>reasonably priced. I will definitely consider that."

Hi to Danielle and everyone at DOMestic.

A host of problems have kept me from posting for about a month
or two, but things are returning to normal. I plan on posting
more here soon about the chastity lifestyle.

I don't know if Danielle has made a purchase from us yet, but in
case you, or any DOMestic reader, are still considering doing
so, I want to give all readers a "heads up" that our prices are
going up beginning Feb. 1st.

Continue reading "Chastity Heaven reviews and prices" »

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Date: Mon, 16 Nov 2009 17:11:31 -0800 (PST)
From: slaveboy - ChastityHeaven

...with wit and "wisdomme", let's call it "frustration humor"
caused by our device :-)

I just had the pleasure of reading a new update written by
"Aarkey" at Aarkeybabble.blogspot.com and I think every reader
can appreciate the humor and wit with which "Aarkey" deals with
his frustration at wearing a truly secure device.

Continue reading "Aarkeybabble Chastity Heaven Review Marches On..." »

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Date: 30 Oct 2009 00:21:45 -0000
From: slaveboy

In "Chastity Question, Is "Milking" Just The Myth That I Think
It Is" I wrote:

>Ever experience "tingling" throughout your whole body along
>with sexual or sensual thoughts?

David replied:

>This always happens to me when I'm subjected to prolonged
>arousal without ejaculation being permitted. It's the best and
>probably the only 'buzz' I get without chemicals, and as I only
>use tobacco and alcohol, and do not want to seek out any other
>chemical "buzz" I highly recommend the buzz or high from
>prolonged "prickteasing"

David, I have been meaning to reply to this since I read it. I'm
so glad to hear this. I have been on cloud nine a lot recently
and I almost feel as if I'm floating at times. I can be out
grocery shopping and see an attractive woman, or I can be home
with my wife and I get such a strong "high" that it really feels
like a drug.

Continue reading "Chastity cloud nine - Goddess addiction" »

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Date: Tue, 21 Jul 2009 14:06:29 -0700 (PDT)
From: slaveboy

Hi All,

It's been quite some time since I have posted here such that
maybe no one remembers me. My Wife/Mistress and I have enjoyed
almost ten years of lifestyle D/s. I bought her our first
chastity device for our wedding and we took D/s vows, after the
actual wedding, in private.

Chastity has long had a deep hold on me, but after trying so
many different devices my Mistress settled on her favorite as
the Club Fem mcd because she liked the spikes and the pain I had
to endure with every arousal.

She enjoys using me for oral and she has redefined what "sex" is
for me.

Continue reading "Chastity, foot worship and the feeling of being gelded" »

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Date: Wed, 17 Jun 2009 11:20:10 -0000
From: "MaitresseX"

I have been a member of the DOMestic Yahoo Group for many years.
I have found this list very helpful to me personally/my
relationship. Kudos to Ms. Christine and David.

I have been part of the "scene" for many years as well though
that was not satisfying to me. It is fun to go to fetish/bdsm
parties but it was not real and just role-play at that moment in
time. I have a 24/7 Ds relationship for five and a half years
and I also have slaves/submissives. The 24/7 relationship has
had it ups and downs and outside/real life challenges but I can
safely say that we are now on the right and positive path. Over
the years dominating my slave was very intense in the beginning
and then mixed until now. I am now combining the intensity with
consistent "sessions".

Continue reading "Real life Fem Dom" »

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posted by: merkurabc
posted on: 2 Sep 2008 11:47:23 -0000

In "experimenting/switching with CB6000" allan wrote:

>if slave gets semi-erect i found i could masturbate using the
>CB-6000 as a "sleeve!"

Yesterday i detected that in fact i can cheat and get out of,
and back into, my CB6000: both small white bolts can be
extracted, so the base ring will open, and - Voila, here he is!
After some play, it should be no problem to put him back into
chastity ;)

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posted by: MissE
posted on: Sun, 03 Aug 2008 16:46:36 +0200

Dear Domestic readers and Ms Christine,

Recently my boy and I purchased a Sentinel Chastity belt.
Wonderful it looks. It has a metal casing and ring. We were
really looking forward to moving our chastity play up to the
next level.

However we have now decided to cut that journey short at least
with this CB as he is having major difficulties with it. As long
as he sits still it is ok but as soon as he moves he finds
pieces of skin being grabbed by the CB and or, as he describes
it, the metal poking like needles into his penis head.

Continue reading "Sentinel Chastity belt" »

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posted by: brian
posted on: 12 May 2008 22:27:35 -0000

Hello

My wife has recently intensified our FemDom marriage and I am
being locked in chastity. We are currently using the CB 2000 and
I find it a tad uncomfortable. I am less than 5 inches hard, so
it is not a size issue ;).

I am looking at the CB-3000 and CB-6000. Can anyone recommend
which one is better?

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posted by: Techster
posted on: 31 Jan 2008 19:51:30 -0000

In "Male Chastity Devices" slaveponyrider wrote:

>i wonder how well i can clean down there with it on.

Speaking as a 60+ year old man who has been married for 40 years
and in enforced chastity for the past 5 years with my wife as
keyholder..

Hygiene has never been a problem, I carry a small bottle with a
10% mixture of alcohol based mint mouthwash - i clean the tip of
my penis and the tube after each time I urinate.

Enforced chastity has given us a more loving, caring and
livelier marriage. Also my wearing the CB3000 is, in my case, an
effective alternative treatment for erectile dysfunction.

Continue reading "Male Chastity Device / Medical Aide" »

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posted by: allan
posted on: Fri, 14 Dec 2007 18:48:53 +0000

Hi guys,

Felicitations for the season, please keep up the excellent work.

We have recently bought a CB-6000, fits so well and completes
the purpose - HOWEVER - if slave gets semi-erect i found i could
masturbate using the CB-6000 as a "sleeve!"

Ms A and i/I are still swapping (roles) and experimenting! Are
there any aspects your readers may benefit from or be interested
in; that you would like us to provide dialogue on/for?

Continue reading "experimenting/switching with CB6000" »

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posted by: surfer slave
posted on: Mon, 15 Oct 2007 12:15:22 -0700 (PDT)

My Mistress and I have been experimenting with chastity and I
wanted to share my thoughts and experiences. Much has been said
here and elsewhere about the "effectiveness" of the CB series
such as the CB3000. The issue that has been put forth is that if
you can pull back out of it, it is not effective.

I have a different perspective.

Continue reading "thoughts on chastity effectiveness" »

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posted by: Rubbermaid Rob
posted on: 17 Jul 2007 09:09:52 -0000

In C: strap-on experiences

dre wrote:

>a strapon? Anyone done this? How did you like it?

My Wife and I have for several years been using a strap-on as
part of our love play. Apart from intense nipple play it is
often the only physical attention I receive and accordingly have
learnt (read trained) to immensely enjoy this aspect of our
lovemaking. However, a recent development has made questionable
for how much longer it will be pleasurable. I will explain.

For three years now I have been locked in a CB3000 and rarely
get time out of the device. When we bought it we also ordered a
set of the 'Points of Intrigue' which I have to wear sometimes
as punishment, or as a means of ensuring my complete focus on my
Goddess while pleasuring Her. For those who's knowledge of the
Points of Intrigue is non-existent or sketchy, perhaps I should
explain why for me, complete focus on Her is required when
wearing them.

Continue reading "strap-on - spikes - and beyond" »

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posted by: johnny
posted on: 17 Jul 2007 03:04:13 -0000

Evening to you all. I want to follow up on the 'Chastity-tease-
denial-milking' thread at...

http://u4ds.us/2007/05/chastityteasedenialmilking.shtml

and give something back so to speak.

To recap, I was looking for chastity advice; my wife was to
leave the country for a while and loves to tease/deny me.

Well, we purchased a CB3000 shortly after my last post, your
responses helped pave the way... We played with it a couple of
weeks before she left; a few hours at a time at first no lock. I
wore it to work one day with no lock... over night... etc.

Continue reading "benefits of male chastity" »

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posted by: Fred
posted on: 14 Jun 2007 07:09:11 -0700

Re: Male Chastity Devices

My fiance has had me in a Lori frenum tube device, off and on,
with the time in the tube increasing each time.

The tube is one inch in diameter and about two and a quarter
inches long with the penis head covered by metal bars. The tube
is substantial, but the ability to wear it for a long period
depends on the care taken to finish the interior edges of the
holes that the frenum rod goes through. The care taken to finish
the interior edges of the holes could have been better.

Any "tube" chastity device will allow masturbation with the use
of a vibrator, it takes some effort, but, "Have vibrator
(bullet), have orgasm!" There is no way to disable orgasmic
response to vibration. Roll your eyes at hype to the contrary.

What counts in a relationship that includes chastity is the
woman's intent in the matter. If she prefers oral sex to coitus,
chastity can be very real in the relationship.

Fred

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posted by: "kinkmarshall" kinkmarshall at yahoo
posted on: Wed, 6 Jun 2007 11:54:59 -0700 (PDT)

Re: Male Chastity Devices

i thought i would share my several years of on and off chastity
experience with everyone.

My Mistress Wife (Mistress Katherine), travels for Her job. i
love to masturbate to kinky movies/pictures, etc. Lots! And i am
60 years old/young. My Mistress calls me her pet and slut. She
gets very upset if i cum without Her presence.., so our Chastity
is not a game, it is very real.

Continue reading "my chastity experience" »

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posted by: "Rob" leatherslave_us at yahoo
posted on: Sun, 18 Mar 2007 06:45:42 -0000

Due to an overwhelming response to my Domme's writings of her
intro and story, "The Beginning" about how our relationship
started and developed, I am here to add more to the story from
my point of view, with my feelings, and desires and how I feel
about my Domme.

On March 2, 2007 Mistress placed her first posting on this site
regarding me being placed in chastity and there was so much more
to the story that I failed to put in there, so I am going to add
a play by play account from my perspective from what my Domme
Miss Michele has written, I hope I don't confuse any of you and
hope you enjoy my writings.

Continue reading "My Submission. A slave's point of view" »

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posted by: "super A" supera at iaxs
posted on: Wed, 14 Mar 2007 19:57:34 -0500

Here are a couple of tips for long term chastity-belt wearers.

If you have a Reinhold or Cararra belt where you are totally
enclosed and spend weeks (or more) in your belt, you know that
hygiene can become an issue. Lately I have only been getting out
every 2 to 3 weeks and that is for for hygiene only, but I have
now found a new method of keeping fresh.

Continue reading "Long term chastity tips" »

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posted by: "Michele Grounded_Shield"
posted on: Sat, 10 Mar 2007 11:42:50 -0800 (PST)

Here is our story from the Domme point of view. I am requesting
that he posts his POV as a sub but it may take a little while.

Miss Michele/Grounded Shield
Southern California

Continue reading "The Beginning" »

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posted by: "tom barronn" bakio98 at hotmail
posted on: Thu, 22 Feb 2007 23:20:07 +0000

I'm certain some readers are wondering if the story was a work
of fiction, or.... an account of someone's real misery.

By all means, have a look at the following pictures and judge
for yourself. That is me in the pics in the various devices from
"Santa's Workshop" as well as the commercial devices. Do recall
the first lines of the narrative:- reading about chastity is one
thing when you have an active libido, but being denied that
release is another story all together.

Continue reading "The Torment - a last comment (and pics)" »

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posted by: "tom barronn" bakio98 at hotmail
posted on: Wed, 21 Feb 2007 00:42:00 +0000

Previous parts are at:-
http://mschristine.com/DOMestic_Blog/stories/chastity/

Torment - The last week.

This thing is driving me crazy. How many times have I been in my
workshop, hacksaw in hand looking down at this infernal piece of
plastic. It is creating a gnawing, invasive 24 hour a day ache
that sits between my legs.

There is not 10 minutes of relief in the day from this pressure.
The pressure of not only fluid backed up inside me, but the
knowledge that my cock has not been properly managed, stroked or
squeezed in weeks. I often reach down and stroke the unyielding
acrylic hoping for some sensation. It does not happen!

Continue reading "The Torment. (part five)" »

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posted by: Her knight
posted on: 19 Feb 2007 00:39:11 -0000

If an author 'hooks' you on a series (as, say, Tom Barronn's
"The Torment" series), then doesn't post the next segment, is
that torment?

Feels like it to me!

Her knight

http://beingherknight.blogspot.com

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posted by: "tom barronn" bakio98 at hotmail
posted on: Fri, 09 Feb 2007 22:32:08 +0000

Previous parts are at:-
http://mschristine.com/DOMestic_Blog/stories/chastity/

Torment - the third week.

Saturday night - Week 3

Well - life has been going on. I'm back to not getting a lot of
quality sleep because of the throbbing pain between my legs that
wakes me every few hours. I try and stroke myself but it just
does not work.

I can say that my body looks funny without hair. I'd like to see
my cock free of the Curve without any hair around it. The
hardest part of the ordeal was shaving the backs of my legs and
up the crack of my butt. I was told to make sure nothing
remained there for "the inspection".

Continue reading "The Torment. (part four)" »

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posted by: "tom barronn" bakio98 at hotmail
posted on: Wed, 31 Jan 2007 00:55:09 +0000

Previous parts are at:-
http://mschristine.com/DOMestic_Blog/stories/chastity/

Torment - the second week.

It took a couple days after the cock whipping for the redness to
disappear. I could see it through the clear acrylic but could do
nothing to soothe the burn. After being forced to bring her to
orgasm in the living room, I was informed that my "cleanings"
were to be reduced to twice per week - Wednesday and Saturday.
She looked at me as if daring me to argue, knowing that another
day of punishment would drive me wild. I meekly nodded
agreement.

Continue reading "The Torment. (part three)" »

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posted by: "slaveboy" herslaveboy_2000 at yahoo dot com
posted on: Tue, 23 Jan 2007 13:49:29 -0800 (PST)

I have been enjoying "The Torment" immensely and for a very good
reason. I too am being kept and trained very much the same way.
My wife/mistress keeps me in a plastic mcd from Club Fem.

She trains me to remain absolutely still when She does allow me
out for "training" which is what I have to ask Her for if I want
to be fondled. I am absolutely not permitted to cum though.

Continue reading "painful Chastity - joyous glee " »

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posted by: "tom barronn" bakio98 at hotmail
posted on: Sat, 20 Jan 2007 17:23:23 +0000

Part one is at http://tinyurl.com/yfsk6e

The Torment - the first week

After being locked up, or down - I was told that every other day
was "cleaning day."

It turned out to be much less of an activity than anticipated.
Since my cock was no longer under my control, I was informed
that the only way I would see or touch it would be through the
plastic covering of the 3000.

Continue reading "The Torment. (part two)" »

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posted by: "tom barronn" bakio98 at hotmail
posted on: Thu, 11 Jan 2007 23:03:22 +0000

The Torment. (My story of being locked up.)

Part one.

This is meant to be a warning about chastity devices. Any male
who thinks that the eroticism of reading about enforced chastity
is the same as actually being there needs to take heed.

It is different to be aroused by a "fictional" set of
circumstances, pull down the zipper and whip it out to relieve
with some friction the pressure caused by the eroticism - be it
pictures or a story. Let me tell you - when you have an active
libido, enjoy sex and can orgasm a couple times per day without
a problem, your life changes when your cock is not in your
control. It is not a joke - nor is it erotic.

Continue reading "The Torment. (part one) " »

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posted by: aniyan
posted on: 25 Aug 2006 17:35:29 -0000

Over three years ago I suggested that "E" did not have to ensure
that I cum every time we made love. Since then the times between
have grown longer and longer.

Continue reading "abstinence makes the heart grow fonder" »

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posted on: Sat, 25 Mar 2006 21:53:03 -0600
posted by: SuperA (supera (at> iaxs

I just gotta write to tell you about the last 10 hours and it's
not over yet. Not that I want to tease you, or tempt you or make
you feel bad... mmmm, maybe I do.

Maybe I want to gloat... I am not sure.

After being locked for two weeks (I know that's not a long
time), I convinced Mrs SA to let me out since she was going to
be gone for the day and I was going to be home all alone with
nothing to do. After some arm twisting, I was finally able to
convince her to leave the keys.

Continue reading "The last 10 hours" »

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posted by: Kevin (KWeiler313)

Just finished a camping trip with some friends of ours, a couple
male-sub female dom. It was interesting, She was complaining
about how easy camping was on the males since they could water
the plants any time they wished and this wasn't right.

Continue reading "Camping Trip" »

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