DOMestic Bdsm and Female Domination

Date: Fri, 25 Feb 2022 00:44:21 -0000
From: "Christine" at u4ds.com

It's been a while since anyone posted here on DOMestic. I hope this update on how David and I have been spending our days stimulates some conversation.

I recently noticed how 'inexpensive' chastity cages for men are nowadays, just as as an example these two I saw on Amazon are now at the 'toys' level of pricing.

Amazon chastity cages for men

At those prices I was happy to buy a couple of 'cheap' chastity cages for shorter term play, rather than try for long term chastity with possibly more expensive or complicated devices. I'll explain...

Continue reading "Chastity in the Third Age - using my favourite devices" »

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Date: 10 Jun 2011 04:11:02 -0000
From: slcfemdomcouple

A while ago I bought my wife a Hitachi Magic Wand. If you don't
have one ladies get one for yourself or men get one for your
S.O. I thought I'd post about a favorite activity that we have
been enjoying the past few years that I haven't seen mentioned
anywhere before.

Continue reading "Tease and Denial with Magic Wand" »

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Date: 7 Jan 2011 05:58:21 -0000
From: MichaelK

It is great to find DOMestic not only active again, but showing
just how good it can be!

As a man who does not want anything to do with humiliation I
hope I can add a new perspective.

Firstly, I think Christine has done an excellent job in
"humiliating to him - sexy for me" of showing how a partner who
does not enjoy giving humiliation in itself, can find ways of
not only making her partner very happy, but having a good time
herself.

And David provided a great explanation of why some men enjoy
humiliation in the "Lovely Humiliation" thread.

Continue reading "teasing and denial fun NOT humiliation" »

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Date: 22 Sep 2010 11:42:18 -0000
From: Evadtayl

I loved blow jobs, but my girl hated the spunk in her mouth.
Then on one occasion she gave me a long blow job stopping as I
got to the edge, then she continued and I felt my spunk build up
and shoot with great force to immediately start a pulsing spasm
which went on and on subsiding to leave a dull pain in my groin.
She looked me in the eyes saying: "my that was good, no spunk in
my mouth and I could feel your spunk bursting to get out but I
will decide when to let it out."

Continue reading "she loves to plug my penis and whip my glans" »

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From: "Christine" at u4ds.com
Date: Sun, 05 Sep 2010 18:48:09 +0100

Hello,

I've just read David's sensible guidance on the issue of zappers
in the "electric with anticipation of being zapped" thread.

So I thought I'd remind some of the ladies of the fun to be had
with a zapper and what I like to call my "remote control wanker"
which I've probably mentioned here before. There are many
variations you can use, but here are a few of mine.

Continue reading "remote control wanker" »

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From: "David" at u4ds.com
Date: Sun, 20 Jun 2010 01:31:14 +0100

Here is another very old post of mine first posted at:-

Sexual Tension

Many liberated folk agree on the importance of sexual
experimentation prior to marriage. I think most would agree that
having sex before marriage is important to establish
compatibility. Even if I am wrong about the 'most', I personally
think it of the highest priority to be sexually compatible
before entering into a long term committed relationship.

However my fertile imagination can come up with some
circumstances under which I might make such a long term
commitment to a woman who refused to let me have the pleasure of
actually "sleeping with her".

Continue reading "sexual tension - why cock teasing works for me" »

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Date: Tue, 21 Jul 2009 14:06:29 -0700 (PDT)
From: slaveboy

Hi All,

It's been quite some time since I have posted here such that
maybe no one remembers me. My Wife/Mistress and I have enjoyed
almost ten years of lifestyle D/s. I bought her our first
chastity device for our wedding and we took D/s vows, after the
actual wedding, in private.

Chastity has long had a deep hold on me, but after trying so
many different devices my Mistress settled on her favorite as
the Club Fem mcd because she liked the spikes and the pain I had
to endure with every arousal.

She enjoys using me for oral and she has redefined what "sex" is
for me.

Continue reading "Chastity, foot worship and the feeling of being gelded" »

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posted by: "Christine" at MsChristine.com
posted on: Mon, 08 Oct 2007 17:42:44 +0000

Hello,

In (turned on by "peeking") Michele wrote:

>The resentment that comes with frustration must also be
>subsumed

Good word, subsumed. I think David does incorporate his
resentment within his submission, and even enjoys the process of
doing so during his arousal state.

Although he denies there is any resentment to "subsume" when he
is being the rational and sane list person.

Continue reading "the dynamics of tease denial" »

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posted by: "David" at Ms-Christine.com
posted on: Sun, 16 Sep 2007 18:34:44 +0000

Hello,

I can't speak for anyone but myself, but regarding Severin, In
caning the sub-moderator, Michele wrote:

>was he really turned on by "peeking"

In my case that's a great turn on in itself.

Continue reading "turned on by "peeking" " »

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