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February 3, 2021

role play or topping from the bottom

From: lee nelson
Date: Wed, 3 Feb 2021 15:14:05 +0000

I asked my wife to act the dominant role, and when she was at a
loss as to what to do I suggested she pretend she's my boss at
work.

Trouble is, I took it too seriously and phoned in sick.

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January 7, 2016

Please help convince my wife to try Dom

From: Mitchell
Date: Wed, 6 Jan 2016 14:29:04 -0500

Hi:

I would like my wife to become at least a dom and if she would a
dominatrix so to fully feminize, sissify, me as her slave.

Here is my problem she thinks this is a crazy life style change
for us, how can I convince her that to consider to try
domination?

We have been married for a number of years and I have been and
continue to be a closeted cross dresser with the desire to
please her as a slave and be used to please other men and women
as she wants.

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June 30, 2012

I am unproven as a sub


From: Suzanne
Date: Sat, 30 Jun 2012 12:13:25 -0500


Help please, I am new to all this. I am in a one month
relationship that is still in the online stage. I have never
been in a D/s relationship before. The guy seems very genuine
and explains much to me. He has been pleased with my progress
and told me he would increase the level of control over me. He
has been very good about educating me and patient with me.

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March 1, 2012

cuddling, spanking, bondage and role-play

Date: Thu, 1 Mar 2012 18:49:23 +0000
From: Autumn


I'm a 61 year old woman, since a few years on my own again after
a long and for the latter part most unfulfilling marriage of
which the last 5 years we slept separately.

Since 5 months I have a 'relationship' that stutters on a few
cylinders. We live about 500 miles apart, and he's been here
three times now. The problem (if that is the word) is that he
wants me to dominate. Dom/sub is something I'd never encountered
before, although I knew it existed.

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November 3, 2011

submits only if done his way

From: Angeloftheknight
Date: Thu, 3 Nov 2011 11:13:10 +0000


I am having a few problems getting My husband to submit totally
to Me. I'll give you some background on us in the hope you can
advise me.

My husband and I have only been together 3 years. I'm 41, he is
58. Between us we have 5 children in the house ranging from 17
to 2 years old. My husband has in the past, from what he has
told me, been on line as a male Dom. Although he has never had a
submissive partner in the D/s sense of the word.

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September 30, 2010

fear femdom procedures too kinky for my wife

Date: Thu, 30 Sep 2010 12:45:27 +0100 (BST)
From: Tom Chambers


Hello Christine,

I would like my wife to try some of the femdom procedures I
think might be in your training packages. However, I fear she
may be a bit reluctant to try them because she thinks they are
too kinky... any advice?

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September 8, 2010

communicating with a domina within scene


Date: 7 Sep 2010 20:45:23 -0000
From: kevin


I found a great system for communicating with a domina, even
during a session. It's the "yes means no, no means yes
technique".

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July 6, 2009

Domestic Discipline - Disciplinary Wives


From: "David" at MsChristine.com / u4ds.com
Date: Mon, 06 Jul 2009 04:08:50 +0100


Disciplinary Wives and the Domestic Discipline they administer.
by David (see "Author's Note" at the foot of this post)


I'm David, I'm a male submissive, and Christine is my lifetime
partner. Christine made me happy by becoming my disciplinary
wife some 30 years ago in 1979. Our 30th anniversary was in June
2009. I mention this to demonstrate that FemDom can lead to
longevity in relationships and it's not just about kinky sex
games in the bedroom.

Rather than talk only about us I want to explore in this brief
article some of the many facets of "Domestic Discipline" and
"Disciplinary Wives". Domestic Discipline may be practiced by
other couples, where the male is defined as the dominant
partner, and I've no doubt that works for some, but here I'm
primarily discussing FemDom relationships.

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March 13, 2009

Is kink really fair for most Women?


From: "Christine" at u4ds.com
Date: Fri, 13 Mar 2009 18:18:10 -0000


Hello,

In "dominant woman - only in a drunken stupor", Nuked Potatoes
expressed the idea that kink is not really fair for most women.
Does it matter? I doubt that most men are kinky, so kink doesn't
need to be "fair for most women".

I don't think we need to concern ourselves with "most" people.
Because in developing a relationship between any couple, there
are only two people that matter.

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November 14, 2007

what do submissives and masochists want?

posted by: "David" at u4ds.com
posted on: Wed, 14 Nov 2007 02:58:11 +0000


Hello,

In (D/s lifestyle in film and video) Michele wrote:

>wouldn't you agree that most submissives do try to top from the
>bottom, to the extent that they wish and hope that the Dominant
>will do to them what they fantasize about - rather than what
>she really wants herself?

No.

Now I'll explain why.

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April 16, 2007

Mating In Captivity

posted by: "Christine" at Ms-Christine.com
posted on: Mon, 16 Apr 2007 10:37:46 +0000


Hello,

There is some fun stuff at some of the links in this post,
although much of the material discussed here is of a serious
nature to do with working at relationships.

I think much of the material discussed here is likely to be
useful to those struggling with a lack of interest in sex
themselves, or a lack of interest from their partner.

There are also links to material which may be helpful to
parents.

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