DOMestic Bdsm and Female Domination

From: "Gerald"
Date: Fri, 17 Aug 2018 19:05:45 +0100

Hello again Mistress Christine,

My wife and I have been readers of DOMestic since the early
days. I joined back in the days of the newsgroups, as soon as I
saw an announcement in alt.sex.femdom. So me first, and then
Audrey.

But I've never uttered so much as a squeak on the list or blog,
whatever it's called nowadays. That is until last night when
reading David's caning in the afternoon post inspired me to get
involved and speak up.

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Date: 4 Apr 2010 02:26:40 -0000
From: j_stimmt

I am writing tonight because it seems I have reached an impasse
with my wife as regards our femdom play together.

Life has become stressful for both of us. We have an out-of-
control teenage son. I'm in graduate school and she's starting
her own business. We are like two ships in the night passing
each other daily with very little time to nurture our
relationship.

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From: PapaHertz
Date: Fri, 21 Aug 2009 18:56:59 EDT

Hello from an old time member of DOMestic, as I recall it used
to be called.

I no sooner celebrated my 'collaring' by a Mistress I met on
DOMestic, who returned to 'claim' me after eight years away from
the BDSM scene, by giving her the correct addie to return to
this site than what do I see? Subbie games!

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Date: Thu, 28 May 2009 17:03:56 -0400
From: feeteager

For the last week or so, i have been following the thread
started by Nuked about there not being any dominant females.

After reading Christine's rejection of Nuked's point of view. i
thought it may be appropriate to share my real-life experience:
I am still learning.

For years it has been understood that i am to be denied the
pleasures that a "Real" man probably takes for granted
(receiving oral and intercourse). During this time it was
decreed that i would be required to maintain my hairless pubic
region as symbolic of those pleasures denied to me and reserved
for only a "Real" man.

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posted by: "Christine" at u4ds.com / MsChristine.com
posted on: Sat, 28 Jun 2008 18:37:56 +0000

Hello,

By way of an update to what I've previously posted about my
changed relationship with David, I want to talk about keeping
his interest in sex, without actually giving him any. This is
just as important as control and punishment, perhaps more so as
it give the punishment a context he enjoys.

In Re: C: losing interest in sex David wrote:

>Christine knows that when she dresses up for an evening out, I
>tend to get "frisky"

As no doubt I previously mentioned I didn't want to send out the
wrong signals to David. So there was a tendency on my part to
restrict all the things he enjoys so much, (stockings, heels,
make-up,) to when we were going out. In this way I hoped to make
sure he wouldn't think that my being so dressed meant that some
sex play was on the cards.

>and wearing a very tight panty girdle with my penis suppressed
>down between my legs ensures than no sign of my interest is
>detected

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posted by: jim (Voice)
posted on: Sun, 10 Feb 2008 20:24:47 -0600

As a follow up to all those who have partners that have lost
interest in sex, I would like to add a further note.

Recently, my partner and I attended a seminar by an OB/Gyn
doctor indicating that it is a very common ailment among
menopausal women as well as in men as they age. Because there
has been much todo about chemical hormones and some of the
ailments that are caused by them, it is important to understand
that the same is not true about bio-identical hormones or
natural hormones.

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posted on: 3 Feb 2008 15:33:04 -0000
posted by: jim

I have been following the "losing interest in sex" thread and
suggest that your wife explore bio identical hormones with a
doctor that believes in them.

Our experience has been very interesting. After her menopause
she reacted with similar tendencies. Not interested in sex, etc.
She read a book by Suzanne Somers that stimulated her called,
The Sexy Years. I recommend every woman who has lost interest in
sex read it.

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posted by: jboy
posted on: 24 Jan 2008 19:32:28 -0000

Hi,

Having had help from you all before with a desire to enjoy a
"fantasy" cuckold, I am on a new tack now.

Does anyone have any ideas about the best way to deal with a
gradually shrinking partner's libido. I once wrote to Christine
about this and while her reply shed some light on the matter I
was left wondering.

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posted by: appy
posted on: 27 Dec 2007 13:52:00 -0000

my Wife has lost Her interest in sexual activity. i was allowed
to pleasure Her orally nearly eight weeks ago for the last time.
And it is nearly nineteen weeks since She gave me an internal
orgasm.

i heard Her talking to a friend about sex in their marriages and
they agreed they didn't feel for it any more.

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posted by: Michele
posted on: Wed, 22 Aug 2007 11:11:34 -0400

Introduction.

This is autobiographical - not fiction, not a "story" - although
I never forget what one writer said:-

"Everything we write is in some way autobiographical, except
autobiographies, which are fiction."

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posted on: Fri, 10 Feb 2006 05:29:35 -0800 (PST)
posted by: MsFanny (msfanny55 (at> yahoo

I also wish to commend Christine and david for their candid
sharing of this stage in their lives. It has been of
considerable interest, since I am going to be 51, my spouse is
just turned 50. I have found many changes on this side of the
40's in my desires and our play. It's good to see the evolvement
of the emotional and physical elements of a long term bdsm
relationship.

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posted on: Wed, 08 Feb 2006 17:35:02 -0000
posted by: "Dan" (Perempt (at> webtv

Here I am again, the straight male Dom who visited the site in
response to Christine and David's newsgroup invitation for
A/anyone to visit and learn from their site.

My interest is in comparing the Domme/sub lifestyle described
here, with the MaleDom/femsub arrangements I am accustomed to.
Though as a straight Dom, I have no interest in having a male
sub, (or for a Domme!), I am seriously wanting to learn how
things work in this neighborhood of bdsm.

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posted on: Fri, 13 Jan 2006 18:27:18 +0100 (CET)
posted by: Appy vdV (Appy (at> mail.be>

David,

Thank you for your elaborate description of the new regime.

What puzzles me a bit is this. Your Mistress doesn't want to see
your erection. I suppose you are naked when you are disciplined.
Don't you get an erection when you are punished and if so can
you hide it in some way?

I hope for you and your Wife her sexual appetite will return
some day.

appy

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posted by: "dave"
posted on: Wed, 28 Dec 2005 23:09:33 EST

Dear Ms Christine,

i was wondering if there was a reason why, when You lost
interest in sex, You didn't place david in chastity.

Sincerely,
dave

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posted by: "Just me" (tmurr3 (at> msn
posted on: Mon, 26 Dec 2005 08:20:06 -0700

Thank you for replying to my question.

It's interesting to discover that Ms Christine's sex drive has
waned to the point of not wanting sex. My wife is 51, I'm 52,
about 17 years ago my wife had a hysterectomy and then breast
cancer 7 years ago. She cannot take Black cohosh or other
estrogen producing drugs due to the cancer. She has absolutely
no sex drive.

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posted by: "Just me" (tmurr3 (at> msn
posted on: Fri, 23 Dec 2005 08:25:07 -0700

I have a question for the group.

I've been a member of DOMestic since 2000 or so. I met my wife
in late 98, we married in 2000. We started out in a Femdom
atmosphere and quickly acquired whips, cuffs, etc. I was getting
flogged regularly with bondage sessions about once a month. At
the time I met my wife I also advised her I was a sometimes
crossdresser as well as a submissive I think I owned 1 bra and a
couple pair of panties.

Over time our bdsm play has diminished, although our finished
basement is still set up as a playroom with all the toys. Over
this same time period my crossdressing has greatly expanded.

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